Stretching Exercises

Thursday, October 14, 2010

On this Thankful Thursday, I'm grateful for stretching exercises! No, I haven't started a new exercise routine, but still, I am becoming more limber. God has taken me out of my comfort zone, and I know He is using this time in my life to stretch and grow me. In order to be closer to my parents who have just moved into an independent senior apartment complex, we have also moved into a new home in a new town. With this move have come many hurdles, but I am learning that with each new challenge there is a positive side and lesson to learn.

Last week stress had taken its toll on me and my frustration level was at a new all-time high. Because of the many changes that came so quickly for our family, the stability in my life had become way out of balance. In addition to learning to become comfortable in a new neighborhood, ensure that my parents were settling into their new home as they faced the unique adjustments concerning their own move, my manageable 30 minute commute to work has grown to an hour or more each way. And last week, as I tried to adapt to these changes, I succumbed to the stress. I discovered that there didn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to go to work, come home and unpack, be a wife, a supportive daughter to my parents, be a mother or a friend…or even have time alone with God. I also found it interesting that during this difficult time at home, it was also the busiest time in my office. I was tired and with my energy level spent, I had an emotional meltdown. I sat in my car during my lunch break at work and burst into tears. The ground beneath my feet seemed to crumble into a pile of sand as I felt myself sinking under the weight of a heavy load. I have to admit that I was so distraught that I couldn’t go to work the next day. My supervisor understood, but still, I felt that I was a failure at handling the changes in my life.

As I rested the next day, I remembered the message that God brought through His servant James: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4). It became obvious that I needed to reevaluate my circumstances. But how could I consider my current trials “joy”? As I pondered that question, I realized that God was at work in my situation. He was making changes in me. God is always at work stretching, growing, maturing and refining us. And just like with stretching exercises, the resulting growth can be painful. Though many things were happening in my life to upset my emotional status quo, I needed to remember what my first priority should be. I needed to keep God at the center of my life every day, especially when life turned upside down. I needed to always put God first, rather than only "try" to save room for Him.

So, with the gentle (or not so gentle) nudging of the Holy Spirit, I changed my point of view. Rather than dwelling in the place where my stress overcame me, I looked at the changes in my life with new eyes, remembering that when I put God first, everything else would fall into place.

When I got up the next morning, I left the house earlier than usual. During my drive to work, I actually turned off the radio and found myself talking and praying to God. My long drive to work became a peaceful journey with God by my side. I used that time to reconnect with the Lord rather than become frustrated with time lost. Then, when I arrived at work, I spent the next 30 minutes continuing my time with the Lord by reading the Bible in my car. The shift in my priorities made a huge difference in how I handled my day. Though the workload was still high, I felt mentally prepared. And then, when I returned home in the evening, though I was tired from a long day, my attitude was better.

In our lives we all face seasons of change. Sometimes that change is difficult and often painful. But through it all, God is faithful. He is busy refining us and purifying us as we mature. Each challenge that we face is truly an opportunity to learn and grow. For me in this season, God’s message has been to remember my priorities…to keep Him first. Then, even when the world is swirling all around me, my feet will be on solid ground.

“So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while. These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world” (1 Peter 1:6-7).

Living for Him,




Be sure to join Lynn over at Spiritually Unequal Marriage for more Thankful Thursday posts. I know you’ll be blessed!

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13 comments

  1. Saying prayers for you, and your dear family.

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  2. I needed to read this this morning, Joan. It is so true that when our life changes, One never changes. He brings everything back into perspective. I pray that He will continue to give you the strength you need in order to adapt to your life changes.

    Thank you for sharing your grateful heart and wisdom with us.

    Love & peace,
    <>< Iris

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  3. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything”, One of my all time favorite verses, and one my husband quote quite often.

    Thanks for sharing how you changed your thought process, I needed to read that today.

    Hope your having a blessed day.
    Hugs,
    Cindy

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  4. Oh Joan, that is a lot of changes to handle. I love how you changed your routine and your perspective changed too. I hate getting out of my comfort zone; I tend to be kicking and screaming. But slowly I'm learning that is the best place to be as that is where we have to lean and depend on the Lord.

    Feel free Joan to email me a quick prayer SOS. I'm happy to pray for you friend.

    Love and hugs,
    Debbie

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  5. I don't have time to read this blog post, but I did notice enough about it to realize you were passionately in love with God.

    The reason I'm bumping over to talk to you is because I noticed your twitter and I followed you. I "LOVE" your little "about me" on your twitter.

    I could tell instantly that you care about being His child.

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  6. Change - ugh. We don't get along so well. Your post is a good one.

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  7. We were both thinking about seasons of change this week. Another beautiful post, Joan. Just this week I told my husband I don't know how I can possibly fit another activity into my already full day. We discussed priorities and of course, when we put God first, all other things fall into place.

    I'm grateful for the stretching exercises.

    Blessings,
    Joan

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  8. Oh Joan, I hear you, and I hurt with you. Never underestimate the stress that you feel and its ability to bring you to your knees...

    When we get there, we have only one way to go, to look, to move...

    toward Jesus.

    You're so right to stay in close proximity to his hem. I will endeavor to do the same.

    I'll pray for you this night as I go to sleep. We all need each other, do we not? And prayer is everything. Thanks for praying for me.

    peace~elaine

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  9. You have been through a lot of changes following a health scare with your daughter. You are so right - it is all about perspective and resting in Him. You are amazing Joan. xo

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  10. I hear you, change is really stressful. I am blessed on how you face this challenges, you're right in every situation that we are into, God is using that to refine and change us to be more like Him.

    Blessings!
    jhunnelle

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  11. So thankful for the Refiners fire - it truly is a blessing.

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  12. Dear Joan - I can't believe how much you're going through right now. First of all, it was so wonderful of you to move closer to your parents. "Honor your father and your mother" - you are being a precious daughter to them right now. God will reward you for that, I know.

    I've heard two things in the last week that really made me think differently about times of stress and change:

    God doesn't want to FIX me, He wants to TRANSFORM me.
    He isn't trying to TEACH me something, He's working to MAKE me something.

    Thanks for sharing this thoughtful post. Your words are a real encouragement!

    GOD BLESS!

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  13. Thoughts and prayers for you!!!

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