The Beauty in His Grip

That's Amazing!

2012-01-25T14:08:00.000-08:00

At the beginning of December my husband and I had the incrediblejoy of being able to share in our 6 year old granddaughter’s first visit toDisneyland! I was excited about the trip,but that was nothing in comparison to the very visible eagerness of ourgranddaughter. On the first day in thepark, her eyes got big and round as we entered the gates and she could hardly contain herself!

Everything was decorated for Christmas and itlooked like a child’s wonderland… well, Disneyland is a child’s wonderland! Asshe held onto her parent’s hands and anxiously pulled them forward, I couldfeel her joyful excitement to experience all Disneyland had to offer. Her child-like enthusiasm warmed my heart andI thanked God that we got to experience this day with her. We went on several theme rides geared towardchildren her age and on each one she blessed us with delighted cries of joy! Being the sentimental sap I am, I was closeto tears the whole time! (In fact, I am now!) But one of the things that happened that has stuck with me the most iswhat she said following our ride through “It’s a Small World.” As many of you know, it is a simple ride showingchildren from different cultures around the world dressed in traditionalclothing and singing. The ride had beenrenovated since the last time I had been on it and was decorated for theChristmas season. Around each corner wewere greeted with animatronic girls and boys singing not only “It’s a SmallWorld” but also “We Wish You a Merry Christmas”. I have to admit that it was quite a sight. As we exited our cart and started to walkdown the ramp to leave, our granddaughter exclaimed, “That was AMAZING!” I had to chuckle because even though the ride wasn't as high-tech as some, through our granddaughter’s eyes, it wasincredible. I loved her enthusiasm!

As I’ve thought about that day, I’ve wondered what has happenedto our passion? It seems that as adults weare inhibited and don’t show the same level of enthusiasm as we did when wewere younger. It is strange, though,because now as an adult I understand more fully the blessings that God has givenme. One would think that my enthusiasm wouldgrow rather than diminish as I age. Jesuspointed out the importance of the attitude of a child’s heart when He said, “…Itell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you willnever enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3).

What was Jesus meaning? He was pointing out that He desired us to come before Him with the same trustingand joyful hearts as children. Why,then, are we so often afraid to express our joy to the fullest? Are we thinking others will think of us asundignified? Maybe so. But even David, a man after God’s own heart,danced before the Lord in an “undignified” manner (2 Samuel 6:14-22). David danced with enthusiasm for the God heloved!

In etymology, I discovered that the word “enthusiasm” comesfrom the ancient Greek word “entheos” or “in-God”. It means “divinely inspired and inhabited bythe Spirit of God”. What ablessing! As a Christian, I have invitedmy Savior into my heart and so, I should rejoice with enthusiasm! I want my Father to see the unhinderedappreciation for Him in everything I do! Each day that we breathe is a gift from above. Let’s not be “ho-hum” Christians,mechanically moving through the motions of religion. Instead, let us celebrate our joy in the Lordwith enthusiasm and let our actionsshow that His Grace is AMAZING!

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Perfect Clarity

2012-01-22T17:20:00.000-08:00

There is a certain clarity in our vision in the hours followinga storm. Have you ever noticed? Yesterday, after several days of heavy rain, Iwoke up to a beautiful sunny day. As I openedthe curtains and looked out the window, I was amazed to see the sun lookbrighter, the sky look bluer, and the air seem clearer than it had for days. There were only a few puffy, white cloudsfloating by, but even they seemed whiter and more three dimensional than usual. Even the trees seemed more in focus as Iwatched the birds dart in between their branches. The day prior had been so different. It had been dark and stormy, makingvisibility difficult through the rain.

The contrast of the two days seemed to mirror what happensto our perception as we face trials in our lives. So often, when we are in the middle of astorm in life, we can’t see past the difficulty to the clearer days ahead. It is much easier, it seems, to focus on theelements which batter our emotions than to see the hope that God promisesus. What should we do while we wait forthe trial to pass? We need to move our gaze from the rain to our Savior! As we pray and open God’s word, ourrelationship with Him will deepen and our faith will grow. We may not understand why certain things arehappening to us. They may seem confusingand unexplainable. However, God knows uscompletely. He sees our future and Hepromises that one day, everything will come into focus.

“Now we see thingsimperfectly, as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything withperfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then Iwill know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely” (1Corinthians 13:12).

So, as we pass through the storms of life, let’s rememberthat the skies will clear. As we place our hope and faith in God, Hewill guide us as we walk through this life with Him. We don’t need to see clearly now, for we cantrust our God, who does.

"...for we walk by faith, not by sight" (2 Corinthians 5:7).

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Sowing Seeds

2012-01-18T18:59:00.000-08:00

When facing times of uncertainty it is so easy to become afraid. The temptation to panic during a stressful situation is all too real. But, God’s word tells us not to be afraid. Instead, we are to place our trust in Him. “So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the LORD your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you” (Deuteronomy 31:6). We can count on God to be with us as we face our fears. He will enable us to handle all the troubles that come our way.

When I was younger I sometimes suffered from what I described as shyness. Now, looking back, a description of “anxiety” would be more accurate. I feared going into new places or facing new situations. I could stand up before a large group with only slight nervousness, but to walk into an unfamiliar restaurant or a home I had never been to before terrified me. I would be gripped by a sick feeling in my stomach, my head would spin and I could feel adrenalin race through my veins. It was a battle to get past those feelings and so often, I chose the much easier route and simply avoided situations that triggered that fearful response in me. The result was that I was missing out on much of the joy that God had waiting for me. When I shared my problem of anxiousness with my husband, he told me that whenever I felt that way, to reach out and hold his hand. He would know that was a request to him for prayer. Then, we would silently ask God for courage and walk into the new situation together. With God’s help and the support of my husband, I have been able to move beyond those momentary feelings of panic that sometimes afflicted me.

Though those feelings of fear were real, the basis of them was unfounded. My anxiousness was not based on fact. However, what happens when something occurs in our life when our fears are more understandable? Do we run from them in panic and miss what God may be trying to show us? Or do we look to God for support? “But the LORD is my fortress; my God is the mighty rock where I hide” (Psalm 94:22).

We need to remember that the Lord will protect us in all our fears. He will shelter us and keep us from harm. It is true that our bodies may fail, but God holds our souls. With that knowledge, there is no need to fear. Instead, during trials and when we face uncertainties in life, it is the time to remain strong in our faith. Rather than sitting back and cowering against the pain or sorrows that threaten to defeat us, it is the time to sow seeds of faith. When we demonstrate our trust in the Lord, remembering that He works all things together for the good, we are actively being a witness for Christ. As we look to God, rather than dwelling on our anxiety, we are free to plant seeds of His love in those around us. In turn, our joy in the Lord will overshadow even the deepest fears we may have. And, when we place our trust in Him, we will live in freedom from fear and enjoy a great harvest in life.

“Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, but they sing as they return with the harvest” (Psalm 126:5-6).

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Fruit that Lasts

2012-01-15T17:55:00.000-08:00

I can hardly believe that this is the 15^th weekof Sharing His Beauty! The last fewmonths have just flown by, haven’t they? It has been such a blessing to read what God has been doing in each ofyour lives. Thank you all for yourwillingness to share. It is such anencouragement to remember that as we share the blessings in our lives withothers, we are bringing honor and glory to His name!

And so, as we enter this new week of sharing, I feel soblessed to be partners in ministry with you. (Yes, blogging can be a ministry!) Ipray that the words we type and the verses we share will be anencouragement to the people who read them. Remember that not everyone who comes upon what we have written willleave a comment, but God’s purpose will prevail! He will bring the person who needs to hearexactly what we are sharing at exactly the right time. We can count on it!

When we tell our stories and give God all the credit, Hispurposes will be fulfilled and we will be producing fruit that will last. “It is the same with my word. I send itout, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, andit will prosper everywhere I send it” (Isaiah 55:11). All praise, glory and honor to Him!

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Promises from God

2012-01-11T18:00:00.000-08:00

Over the Christmas holidays this year, I had quite a bout ofthe “empty-nester blues”. My kids havebeen on their own for a couple of years now, but for some reason, this year hitme pretty hard. As I think about how Iwas feeling, I realize I was being quite unreasonable because I have seen eachof them many times over the last couple of months. In fact, I think we’ve been blessed with morespecial moments this year than ever! But, as I got to reminiscing about Christmasespast, and the way things used to be when they were little (and I was younger!),I got quite maudlin. Then, to make matters worse, I went from thinking about my sweet children intheir childhood to places in my own life that were long since passed. In my emotional state, I was also in aweakened state and was vulnerable to the lies of the enemy. I started going over a list of “what ifs” andregrets about the past. What if I hadmade better choices? What if I had neverstumbled? Would things be different oreasier today? Those thoughts then led toself-condemnation and before I knew it, my state of depression came into fullbloom.

What was interesting about this upsetting time for me wasthat I realized I wasn’t thinking the way the Lord wanted me to think! I knew I belonged to my Lord. I was redeemed and had been created anew.

“This means thatanyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!(2 Corinthians 5:17).

But still, the nagging voice inside of me kept on telling methat I wasn’t good enough to please our Lord. I didn’t deserve my family’s love, let alone God’s. And so, I kept on going over and over things thathave long since been forgiven. There wasreally not a purpose to it. I knew Icouldn’t change anything, and yet still, I continued. I prayed each day for God to lift this shadowthat had fallen upon me. I prayed forHim to give me strength to look at and appreciate my blessings. I searched scripture and shared my feelingswith my husband. And God, as always wasfaithful.

Psalm 139 became such a reassurance to me. My God knows everything about me. He knit me together in my mother’s womb. He knew be before I was born and knows whatmy future holds. He has seen everythingthat I have ever done or ever will do and yet, He loves me. In fact, the Psalm goes on to say that Histhoughts about me are “precious”! Precious. That word in itself is an amazing adjectiveto be used by God to describe His feelings for me!

Dictionary.com defines the word as:

Of high price or great value; very valuable or costly.
Highly esteemed for some spiritual, non-material, or moral quality.
Dear; beloved.

Wow. I am humbled. MyGod loves me with an unconditional love! He has redeemed me and set me free from the chains of the past. So why, then, do I tend to remain in theprisoner’s cell when He has thrown the door open wide? Shouldn’t I trust my Godand His decisions? Yes! Shouldn’t I believe that His love for me isstrong? Yes! Shouldn’t I remember that I am a new creationin Christ? Yes, yes and yes! So, how will I remember these promises? I will abide in Him. When my thoughts threaten to tear me down, Iwill look to God. I will remember topraise Him in the good times, and praise Him in the difficult times. If a shadow threatens to descend upon meagain, I will remember that God is with me, shaping me, growing me andstrengthening me, and above all, loving me. I will ignore the lies of the enemy and focus on the promises of God. AsI abide in Him, I can be sure that He will carry me through. Just this morning, as I was reading Sheri’s post from Humbled Living, I felt the Lord was reminding me that the past isgone and a new day has come. In herpost, Sheri wrote about Lot’s family fleeing Sodom and Gomorrah and the wisewords that God’s messenger spoke. Hesaid, “Don’t look back.” I won’t.

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Adventurers with God!

2012-01-08T13:39:00.000-08:00

One of my blogging friends, Debbie at Heart Choices, posted thather “word for 2012” is Adventure! Don’t you just love that word? It elicits all sorts of emotions within me –joyful enthusiasm, happy anticipation, sometimes fear, but mostly excitement! I know that when on an adventure I willdiscover new things, explore new places and experience things never before known! When on an adventure I can expect theunexpected!

Like Debbie, I want to go onan adventure this year – one with my Savior and Lord. I want to climb higher, dive deeper and experience Him more intimately. Won’t you join me? Through my blogging over the coming months, Iwill be chronicling my ongoing adventure with the Lord. As I write about my experiences and how Godshows and teaches me new things, I will share them with you. My prayer is that together, we will discovera God we never knew before! One who is biggerthan we thought, more real than we hoped, and more loving than ever dreamed. I can hardly wait!

“…God, who got youstarted in this spiritual adventure,shares with us the life of His Son and our Master Jesus. He will never give upon you. Never forget that.”

1Corinthians 1:7, The Message

In His Grip,

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Throughout the Battle

2012-01-04T18:00:00.000-08:00

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Do you ever feel that you've come to the end of yourrope? Have you felt that life has becomeso overwhelming that if just one more difficult or challenging thing happensyou will lose the battle and the army of giants you face will overtakeyou? Sometimes life feels that way. It comes at you like a battering ram untilyou are bruised and aching, feeling that you can’t take anymore. But in times like those, when we feeldefeated, we need to remember that though life can be hard, our Savior is therefor us throughout the battle.

Recently, a series ofevents have occurred in my life that have left me so emotionally exhausted thatI haven’t been able to function as I should. My smile has been forced, my laugh strained and my positive attitude hasbeen injured. Pressure has enveloped melike an evil vice grip and stress has taken its toll. How long, I have wondered, until I would feelrelief? As I have opened my eyes eachday, I have cried out to God and I know He hears me.

“You are my Helper and my Savior. O my God, do not delay” (Psalm 40:17b).

God always proves faithful in all He does and I trust Himcompletely. The difficulty, I havefound, lies in remembering that His timing is perfect. Even in my struggles, He is working with apurpose. In my weakness, I have feltthat I couldn’t handle any more. With mystrength drained and energy gone, fear crept its way into my tired soul and I struggledto stand in the battle. But, as I confessedmy fears to Him, I remembered that the battle is the Lord’s! He will hold me up and fight for me. I need not be afraid!

“…This is what the Lord says: ‘Do not beafraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army, for the battle is not yours,but God’s’” (2 Chronicles 20:15).

My Lord is here with me…and He is here with you, too. We can stand firm in the knowledge thatthroughout all of life’s trials, God is fighting for us. He is greater than any of our giants. Though we are weak, He will hold us up anddeliver us.

“‘You will not have to fight thisbattle. Take up your positions;
stand firm and see the deliverance the LORDwill give you, Judah and Jerusalem.
Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Goout to face them tomorrow,
and the LORD will be with you’” (2 Chronicles20:17).

So, as we go out and face another day full of challenges,struggles…and giants, we can have courage. The Lord will be with us and thebattle is His.

In His grip,

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Stepping into the New Year

2012-01-01T17:55:00.000-08:00

This morning I woke up to a beautiful sunny day. To help bring in the New Year, my husband andI went for an early morning walk. Theday is crisp and clear with only a smattering of frost on the grass. The sun is shining brightly through theleafless trees, warming the earth and sending a light steam into the air. It is hard to believe it is the middle ofwinter, but here, near the coast in Northern California, the seasons are verymild. But, today, things seem even fresher and more alive than usual. Even thesound of the birds chirping brightly adds to the spring-like newness of theday. I have a feeling that God is sayingHe has good things planned for this year – new beginnings, fresh starts andwonderful adventures with Him! I have anexcited sense of anticipation as I look forward to all God is going to do in2012!

“For I know the plansI have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you,plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

Let’s remember as we step forward into this new year, toplace our trust in Him. As we look toHim for guidance and strength, we can be thankful with the knowledge thatwherever He leads us and whatever plans He has in store for us; it will all befor our good. This morning, on thisfirst day of 2012, I am praising God for his never ending love, mercy andgrace! I have so much to look forwardto, because I am placing my hope in Him.

Happy New Year!

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First Impression Specialist

2011-12-28T15:00:00.000-08:00

Several years ago I had the blessing of being our church’s first receptionist. Prior to me taking the position, we didn’t have a particular person answering the phones and greeting the people who came through the front door. However, as our church grew, the need to delegate some responsibilities (I’ll call them blessings) also grew.

I soon discovered that this position provided an opportunity to meet many new people, both to me and to the church. It also gave me an opportunity to serve in a way that seemed to suit my personality. I am cheerful by nature, and I’ve been told that my voice is a pleasant one on the phone. So, as I dove into this new area of service, I was filled with joy by being able to use a gift that seemed to come so easily to me.

One of the ladies who often called into the office used to refer to me as the “First Impression Specialist”. On Sunday mornings, she’d even introduce me that way to the people we met! I loved the description and new “title”, but with it also came more responsibilities…whoops, I mean blessings. I became acutely aware that as people called in or came into the office, they were looking for Jesus. They were hoping to find the fellowship, joy and healing that He offers. And so, as I realized this, I made a point of trying to shine His light through my words, actions and even my demeanor. I didn’t want their first impression of this house of worship to be negative. Now...I am not perfect – far from it! I know that there have been times when I have not been a good witness. However, at other times, I have been blessed to be able to reach out and share His love.

“In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds
and praise your Father in heaven" (Matthew 5:16).

That verse in Matthew reminds me of the children’s song, “This Little Light of Mine” --This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine…Let it shine, Let it shine, Let it shine. It goes on to remind us not to hide the light (Christ’s Light) nor allow the enemy to snuff it out. But instead, to let it shine for all to see until Christ’s return! What great advice!

As I go through my day, I am reminded to let my light shine. You never know who may be watching. When trials come and we look to Jesus for strength, people will see. When we remember to reach out in love to those around us, people will see. When we stumble and fail…and then grasp God’s hand to help us up again, people will see. If we want to point people to Jesus, we need to become "First Impression Specialists" because our most powerful witness is in our actions. So, let us remember to show His love and His Light to the world. That way, He will shine for all to see.

Shining for Him,

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Only the Beginning

2011-12-24T08:54:00.000-08:00

Two thousand yearsago, on a night lit brightly by a heavenly star, a young mother gave birth to aHoly Child. In a humble manger in Bethlehem Love entered the world in humanform. Angels announced it, shepherds welcomed it and wise men celebrated it.The long anticipated arrival of the Savior, whose birth had been foretoldcenturies before, had finally come.

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and thegovernment will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor,Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6).

But was Christ’sarrival in Bethlehem the final climax to centuries of anticipation? Was thework completed on that starlit night? Though Jesus’ birth was the culminationof a miraculous and holy pregnancy, God’s plan didn’t end as Mary held Jesus inher arms for the first time. That moment was only the beginning.

As Christians, wecelebrate Christmas because it is the beginning of God’s planof salvation for us. JesusChrist, God and Man, Father and Son, entered the world to save us from our sins.And in the years that followed His momentous birth, God walked with us andtalked with us. He brought Light to a dark world as He taught the Truth of theScriptures. He healed the sick. He comforted the hurting. He fed the hungry andHe ministered to the multitudes. He faced every challenge and temptation thatwe have ever or will ever experience. And through it all, He did not sin. Heunderstands us, not only because He created us, but because He lived as one ofus.

Why would our Creatordo this? Because He loves us. So great is His compassion that Christ lived alife on earth and then willingly went to the cross to die for us. He saved usfrom eternal separation from God and gave His life so we could be with Himforever. His ultimate sacrifice, 33 years beyond Bethlehem, is a gift of loveand of life that should always be celebrated.

On this Christmas day, as we remember and celebrate the birth of Jesus,let us also remember that Christmas doesn’t end today. It is only the beginning of the journey tothe cross – a journey willingly taken by our Savior because of His incredible,sacrificial love for us.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John3:16).

Merry Christmas! May eachof you experience the true joy of Christmas today and each day as you welcomeHim into your heart and life.

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Unwrapping the Gifts of Advent - The Gift of Love

2011-12-18T17:54:00.000-08:00

On this fourth Sunday in Advent, we are only days away fromthe celebration of Christ’s birth. It isonly fitting that we reflect upon God’s great love for us. Our Maker, the Creator of the heavens andearth, could have left us to our own designs and suffering, but because of Hislove for us, He created a way for us to be in communion with Him forever. Rather than being separated by a chasm of sinand evil, He bridged the gap between our brokenness and His holiness with thegift of His Son.

“God showed how much he loved us by sending His one and only Son intothe world

so that we might have eternal life through Him” (1 John 4:9).

There has never been a greater gift! Emmanuel – God with us. When Jesus wasborn twenty centuries ago, true Lovecame down to earth in the body of an infant. He lived and died to set us free. Through His sacrifice on the cross, we now knowthe incredible love of God. He desiresthat not one of us should perish, but rather that we all would find everlastinglife through Him.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, thatwhoever believes

in Him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

Now is the time to end our exile and welcome Him into ourhearts! Let us rejoice in the gift ofGod’s true Love – Emmanuel, our God whocame near!

Oh, come, oh, come, Emmanuel,
And ransom captive Israel,
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

-John Neal (1818 – 1866)

So grateful for His Love,

Luke Warm Christmas

2011-12-14T14:20:00.000-08:00

There has been a lot of talk this year about the phrase "HappyHolidays" versus “Merry Christmas”. I for one prefer to say MerryChristmas as I am a follower of Christ. However, the greeting HappyHolidays is not offensive to me. You see, it began innocentlyenough. It was a way to include all the holy-days surrounding our Savior’sbirth into one greeting! Over the years,however, it has lost its meaning. Instead of being a way of wishingpeople well during December’s holy days, it came to be a way to skirt aroundthe Christ in Christmas. How sad.

Today, in our politically correct society, Nativity scenes, Christiandecorations and even workplace discussions of Jesus have been attacked. Atheistic signs and anti-Christmas sloganshave become common in the name of “free” speech. Christmas, it seems, is being attacked underthe guise of not wanting to exclude anyone...or as I have read so often in the headlinesrecently, so as not to "offend" anyone. Hmmmm. What about the Christian’sright to free speech?

Now, I'm all for being polite and not being disrespectful tomy neighbor. Christ teaches us to love and not to hate. But He alsotells us to "Go and make disciplesof all nations…" (Matthew 28:19). How can we do that if we are lukewarm inexpressing our faith? I think it’s time we stop watering down why we are celebrating! Should we hide and act as though we are ashamed of Christmas? If wedo, aren't we really saying we are ashamed of Christ? And, how can thatbe? Jesus Christ - the One who came toforgive our sins, to heal our souls and to set us free! Jesus Christ - the One who came to give us hope, peace, joyand love! To me, that is nothing to beashamed of. It is a gift beyond description.

I know that Jesus is the One who saves. I cannot forceanyone to believe. However, through my actions, my words and yes, even mycelebration of Christmas, I can plant the seeds that hopefully point others toHim. So, during this holy-day season, let’s remember not tohide from the true meaning of Christmas simply because we don’t want to upsetsomeone who doesn’t (yet) believe. God’sgift of Christ is far too special and far too important to keep behind closeddoors.

"No one lights alamp and puts it in a place where it will be hidden, or under a bowl. Insteadhe puts it on its stand, so that those who come in may see the light” (Luke11:33).

My prayer is that Christ’s light will shine brightlythroughout our homes, cities and country this Christmas. May we have the courage to stand up andproclaim to the world that Jesus Christ is Lord and that He is the reason we are celebrating! Through everything we do and say, may wereveal the love of Christ to those around us so that all will come to see the Light.

Praising the Name of Christ,

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Unwrapping the Gifts of Advent - The Gift of Joy

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“When they saw the star they were filled with great joy!”

(Matthew 2:10)

The Magi who sought the Messiah rejoiced when they saw the star in the east for they knew that it was a sign from the heavens that would lead them to their Savior. They longed to find the Lord so they could bow down and worship Him as King. When the star filled the sky and lighted the way, they knew that their search was almost at an end and their hearts were overwhelmed with joy!

And, just like the Wise Men of years ago, there are many searchers in the world today. They are men and women, both young and old, who are looking for answers. They search for something to fix the pain, remove the ache and save them from an empty life. But, unlike the travelers who found Jesus in the light of that star over Bethlehem, they often follow the wrong paths. Somehow, they miss His light, for lack of a star. But still, they search. And for those who search for the Lord, they will find joy beyond their imagination, for they will find Christ. He is the only One who can satisfy the longing in our hearts and fill the “God-shaped” hole inside of us. We have but to ask…

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find;

knock and the door will be opened to you” (Matthew 7:7).

Praise God that He is a Savior that wants to be found by us! He promises healing, fulfillment and life. He gives us hope and peace and fills our souls with joy! On this 3rd Sunday in Advent, as we light another candle, let’s remember the incredible gift we are unwrapping. Joy has come to the world through Christ the Lord! Let us rejoice as we welcome Him into our lives!

Joyfully receiving Him,

“Joy to the world – the Lord is come! Let earth receive her King!”

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Peace In the Midst of a Herd

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Of all the towns my husband and I have called home, one of the moreinteresting places we have lived has been a little mining town in the rollingfoothills of California called Angels Camp. Some of you may recognize that namefrom the writings of Mark Twain as he spent quite a bit of his time travellingthrough that region of California during the Gold Rush of the mid 1800's.

Angels Camp is well known for its annual county fair, better known as"The Jumping Frog Jubilee" which was made famous (or infamous!) byMark Twain's short story, "TheCelebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County" (1867). You would thinkthat living in a quaint town that was made famous by frogs and a rich historyof gold mining would be interesting enough, but no -- there's more. Angels Campboasts several working cattle ranches, one of which was only a few miles fromour home.

Living in this rural location, much of my time was spent driving ourchildren to and from town. On one occasion in particular, a “not your everydayoccurrence” stands out in my mind. As I sped around a corner of the oaktree lined highway, I came face to face with several hundred bovine! Iimmediately put my foot on the breaks and slowed down. My car was theonly one on the road which was now completely blocked. I felt trapped as Iinched forward and I wondered how I would get past them to take mychildren to school on that day. Moments later the cattle were on all sides ofus, stirring up dust and encircling the car. I could move nofurther. I felt confused and a bit of panic set in as the beasts lumbered byme. A steer is a rather large animal when it is right next to you – up closeand personal! I felt boxed in, surrounded and pressed in on all sides. The roadwas impassable and I didn’t know what to do. Then suddenly, through the cloudof dust a cowboy appeared in front of me riding upon a horse. Yes, there reallyare still cowboys in California! (And in case you are wondering…he wasdressed the part complete with chaps, a leather vest, Stetson hat and a shinybelt buckle. Can’t you just picture it?)I looked up at him through my car window and saw that he was motioning for meto continue driving. The man was calm and unruffled as he came alongsideme and slowly directed me through the massive herd of cattle. His reassuringpresence settled my nerves and my panic subsided. I kept my attentionon my guide as we made our way through the crowded highway and a peaceful calm settled upon me. Hestayed by me all the way until my car was beyond the steers and the road wasclear.

This memory has sometimes come to my mind when I have felt weighed down andboxed in by the chaos of life. At times our jobs or other responsibilities canseem so overwhelming that we feel hard pressed and confused as we try to figureout how to maneuver our way through the turmoil. Our focus often shifts fromGod to our troubles and stress begins to overtake us. Have you ever felt likethat? Completely overwhelmed and surrounded by burdens that seemingly blockyour forward progress? Take heart! God’s word promises that He will neverabandon us. He will be our Guide.

“We are pressed on every side bytroubles, but we are not crushed and broken. We are perplexed, but we don’tgive up and quit. We are hunted down, but God never abandons us. We get knockeddown, but we get up again and keep going” (2 Corinthians 4:8-9).

Maintaining our focus on God's character and not on our circumstances isessential when navigating through life. We will all face trials and “roadblocks” at one time or another but when we focus on His promises our spiritswill be comforted and we will feel His peace. Knowing that God will never abandon us will help us faceevery obstacle in our path. So, let’s remember when things are hectic and wefeel a bit frazzled, to keep our eyes on our Guide. In the midst of a herd oftroubles He’ll stay by us and lead us through.

Living for Him,

Post Script: I originally wrote and posted this in June of 2010. However, since this week is the week we remember God's gift of peace, I thought it appropriate to post again. Also, I've added an Advent tab above with my gift to you during this Christmas season. Blessings!

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Unwrapping the Gifts of Advent - The Gift of Peace

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Purpose...

Thirty threeyears before Jesus walked the dusty road to Calvary, He came to this earth inthe body of an infant. The Creatorbecame the created; wholly Divine and yet wholly human. In that humble stable 2000 years ago, as ayoung mother strained and angels watched, God put His plan into motion. Jesus was born into this world to give us agift unimaginable. He came to bring uspeace with God.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid” (John 14:27).

Since sin first entered the world through an act ofdeception in the garden, we have been separated from God. But Jesus made a way through His ultimate sacrificeon the cross to become reconciled. Atthe moment of His death, the curtain in the temple was torn allowing us directaccess to our Heavenly Father. Through our surrender and acceptance of Him, oursins are washed away. There is no longerreason to fear the terrors of this world for our future is secure with Him.

“Therefore, since wehave been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because ofwhat Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us” (Romans 5:1).

So on this Sunday, as we light the second candle in Advent andunwrap the gift of peace, let us remember the purpose for which our Lord wasborn into this imperfect world. He camefor you and me.

So thankful for His peace,

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A Woman of Courage

2011-11-30T06:42:00.000-08:00

I love the song, “Courageous” by Casting Crowns. Even though its message is geared toward men,encouraging them to be leaders and stand up for God and His principles, itslyrics speak to my soul. I find thatrecently, praying for courage is something that is daily on my heart. I long to be the woman God created me to be. I have the desire to stand up and face the challengesin my life with strength and dignity, but so often I think I fail miserably. It seems I would rather run and hide than bethe warrior I know I should be.

I do take heart knowing that I have a Friend along the road that I walk, but sometimes I still give into my fear. I am afraid of not being strong enough to handlethe work that is set before me. But,David reminds us in 1 Chronicles 28:20 to: "Be strong and courageous,and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD God, my God, iswith you. He will not fail you or forsake you until all the work for theservice of the temple of the LORD is finished.”

I know that means that God will never leave me. He will not only stay with me during thistrial, but will be by my side no matter what else comes my way. I can have confidence in Him – the choice ismine. Do I choose to cower, alone andafraid as I look to the difficulties in my life? Or, do I choose to stand up, holding onto thepromises of God’s Word and be a woman of courage today?

Casting Crowns’ song reminds us that, “the only way we’ll everstand, is on our knees with lifted hands.” So, each day I choose to fallon my knees and bow down before my Lord. I am placing my faith in Him and not in myself. I know that God will enable me to face anybattle that comes my way. He will allow His strength and His courage to flow through me. The choice is mine…and I choose tobe courageous! It starts today - rightnow, this very moment. With God by myside, I am woman of courage!

Living for Him,

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Unwrapping the Gifts of Advent - The Gift of Hope

2011-11-27T13:44:00.001-08:00

On this first Sundayin Advent – the season when we prepare our hearts for the celebration of thebirth of Christ – we are reminded to place our hope in Him. He is our firm foundation and the Anchorwhich holds us fast. He came to thisearth, lived and then died among us in order to provide a way to bridge the gapbetween us and God. He came to give us hope –hope of a life forever with Him. Christ,the ultimate sacrificial Lamb, willingly took our sins upon His shoulders toset us free! What an incredible gift! Nolonger are we chained to our pasts or burdened with an uncertain future.

“This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls.

It leads us through the curtain into God’s inner sanctuary” (Hebrews 6:19).

When we place our hope in Him, we will neverbe disappointed. The things of thisworld will come and go, like sand slipping through our fingers. But Christ and His promises are trustworthyand unchanging. He tells us that nomatter what happens in this world, when we place our hope in Him, we are secure. And that security…that hope…gives us peace ofmind and heart.

Holding OntoPeace Everlasting,

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Today I am wishing each and every one of you a Happy Thanksgiving! I invite you to the celebration over at Laced with Grace today. Please be sure to visit and enjoy a special Thanksgiving message from all of those who contribute to that inspirational web site.

I am so thankful for you and your friendship. I so enjoy your comments and encouragement you have given me. I pray that you are blessed with much joy today!

Living for Him,

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My Friend along the Road

2011-11-20T17:55:00.000-08:00

Uncharted waters are frightening. The unknown always is. In each new season of my life I have faced circumstancesthat were unfamiliar and have challenged me to learn. Years ago it was starting school, learning todrive, getting married and then becoming a parent. Each of those situations was new to me and asI first started, I had no idea what I was doing or what was to come. At moments I was afraid and uncertain, but, God wasfaithful and lead me through each stage. He grew me, shaped me and taught me what I needed to know. Today, I am so thankful that God is stillteaching me, especially now that I am facing an entirely new season - the timewhen my parents are enduring the challenges of moving through the winter oftheir lives.

I am trying to be the best daughter I can be and I am happyto help them whenever I am needed. I am loving them as Christ has taught me, but still, thisis a confusing time. For so many years Ilooked to my parents as the strong ones and the ones I went to with questions. They were the ones who bandaged my knees andhelped me dress. Now, the rolls arereversed and it tugs at my heart. Theother night, my dad was afraid of the future and what was to come. As I sat with him and held his hand, I offeredwords of comfort while he relaxed. WhenI left later in the evening, my emotions bubbled up and tears spilled down mycheeks.

It is so difficult to see the rolls reversed. I feel so ill-equipped to handle this seasonin life. Sometimes I feel I’m the onlyone who has ever crossed these turbulent waters, but I know that is not true. I am only one daughter in generations ofdaughters who have faced a time like this. And, thankfully I am not alone! I have a Friend who walks with me along the road. His presence comforts me and gives me courage. My fear dissolves as I look to Jesus, for Iknow He will never leave me.

“Be strong andcourageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD yourGod goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6).

I am so thankful for my Friend along the road. While we walk, He teaches me and growsme. Without Him, I’d be lost in a sea ofthe unknown. But with Him, I am strengthened. I am blessed as He deftly guides me along theroad.

Living for Jesus,

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Wiser Than I!

2011-11-16T18:00:00.000-08:00

Worry. We all have done it. None of us like it. It seems to be one of those nagging constants in life that we can’t get rid of. If you are anything like I am, over the years you may have worried about your living situation, your job, family, health, salvation of someone dear, the weather, and my personal favorite - the future! The list could go on and on. With all my worrying, I have learned two important lessons: one is that worrying never solves anything and the other is that worrying wears me down. And when I am worn down, I am less able to handle the challenges that come my way. If that is the case, then why do it? It is natural to care for those we love and want the best for them. We also tend to want to figure things out…and figure them out now! But God’s word tells us not to do that. Instead, we are to trust in Christ. Our energy is better spent offering our troubles to the Lord in prayer! Then we will have peace as we face the concerns in our life.

“Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything; tell God your needs, and don't forget to thank Him for His answers. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will keep your thoughts and your hearts quiet and at rest as you trust in Christ” (Philippians 4:6-7).

Trusting God and giving Him our worries doesn’t mean we won’t have trials. But it does mean that He will help us through our trials. God is always with us and He always cares. There is nothing so trivial that God doesn’t see and know. “Let Him have all your worries and cares, for He is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you” (1 Peter 5:7). God has a plan for our lives and each thing that happens plays a part in bringing that plan to fruition.

One of the things that I know to be true is that God is much wiser than I am! (Oh, so much wiser!) His word offers such help as we struggle in our journeys to a better understanding of His love for us. I am learning daily to trust Him for all the cares and worries in my life. He is able (and more than willing) to handle them all! My sister e-mailed me a great list of reasons not to worry which I have since printed out and tucked into my Bible. Each one is supported by a wonderful verse from the book of Matthew. I thought I’d share them with you today.

Seven Reasons Not to Worry:

The same God who created life in you can be trusted with the details of your life. (Matthew 6:25)
Worrying about the future hampers your efforts for today. (Matthew 6:26)
Worrying is more harmful than helpful. (Matthew 6:27)
God does not ignore those who depend on Him. (Matthew 6:28-30)
Worry shows a lack of faith and understanding of God. (Matthew 6:31, 32)
There are real challenges God wants us to pursue, and worrying keeps us from them. (Matthew 6:33)
Living one day at a time keeps us from being consumed with worry. (Matthew 6:34)

I pray that as we face each day, our hearts will be at peace as we release our concerns to God! May we all learn the true joy of fully trusting our Lord!

Living for Him,

Overwhelmed By Joy!

2011-11-13T18:00:00.000-08:00

A few days ago, I was overwhelmed by joy! I had just spent a wonderful time away with my husband to celebrate my birthday. We traveled through the beautiful landscapes of the Sierra Nevada Mountains as well as spent some blessed time with our grown children. I even enjoyed a special lunch with a wonderful friend who lives many miles away. My birthday week was exciting and fulfilling and I felt thoroughly spoiled! Yet, soon I was to discover that more was to come.

After returning home and getting things in order for the week ahead, my husband and I were relaxing in the comfort of our living room. The rain was coming down quite steadily outside and it felt warm and cozy to sit together and reminisce over the adventures of our trip. Then, quite suddenly in midafternoon, my husband stood up asked how soon I could be ready! He “claimed” that he wanted to do something fun before our vacation was over and asked me to pack an overnight bag. Well, as much fun as I’d like to think I am, I do tend to get a bit nervous when it comes to spur of the moment activities! But, my husband has blessed me so much and I told myself to just “go with it”!

After throwing a few things in a bag, we got in the car and drove. As we went (to wherever it was we were going), my husband was teasing me and trying to keep me guessing as to where our destination was. I assumed that it would be the coast, because we only live about 30 minutes from the ocean. However, he was driving in circles, and not heading west! Finally, after driving through the vineyards and then the redwoods of Sonoma Valley, we arrived in a quaint little town not far from home. After making a few stops to check his GPS (!) my husband drove us up a narrow driveway to a beautiful home overlooking the town. My guess was that he had booked a room in a Bed and Breakfast as a special treat! “What a romantic guy” I thought as I walked with him up the stairs to the front doors. But, when we reached the glass door and I looked inside, I was absolutely stunned! The room as all aglow with candlelight and autumn decorations and standing in the center was my entire family and many friends! I literally began to shake and cry and laugh all at the same time!

As I made the rounds hugging all my loved ones, I marveled that they had all come so far just to see me – They had arrived from Alaska, Oregon, Northern California, the Central Valley and Southern California just for this evening! I was amazed and overwhelmed by joy! I would love to say that I was speechless, but obviously from the many words I’m typing here today, that is not the case! I cannot stop talking about how wonderful it was and how loved they all made me feel!

Today, I am thanking the Father for the incredible blessing of family and friends! I feel so undeserved for the outpouring of love that I received. But isn’t that truly the nature of love – selfless, unconditional, unmerited Agape love? As I think of the sacrifices my family has made for me, I am amazed. But, even more so am I astounded at the sacrifices of our God! Because of His Agape love for us, “…He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16). What a blessing to be loved like that! “Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God's glory” (Romans 5:2). Thank you, Father, for the blessing of loved ones and for the joy of knowing that our future is secure with you!

Overwhelmed by joy,

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At His Table

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One of my favorite movies is a romantic comedy called, "Return to Me". It is about a young woman who receives a heart transplant and how through a series of unusual events, God brings love into her life. But what always strikes me the most about this movie are the scenes that take place around the table in the back room of the restaurant that her grandfather runs. Each night, after the restaurant closes, an eclectic group of people gather to eat, talk and laugh together. It is a warm and inviting place where all are welcome.

One evening, a man grieving over the loss of his wife returns to the restaurant to retrieve his phone which he had earlier left behind. Even though he is a stranger to the friends at the table, he is graciously welcomed as if he had always belonged there. And in that moment he begins a journey which heals his heart. At the table he finds family, friends, acceptance and love.

Isn't that something we all want -- to be accepted and loved? So often we search for that feeling of belonging in places where we will only find heartache and sorrow. Our lonely human hearts long to be loved and cared for. Sometimes it is the teenage girl searching for love in the arms of another who is left only with shame and more loneliness. Sometimes it is the one searching for acceptance by following his peers' destructive behavior who ends up trying to numb his pain with a bottle or the end of a needle. Often it is the person who is so consumed by striving to succeed who ends up not gaining anything of any real value. She works and labors to add more "things" to her life hoping they will fill the void she feels inside, but discovers it is not enough. Temporal things are never enough to satisfy the longing we feel inside. But, when we seek the Lord, our hunger for love will be satisfied.

"Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and

He will give you everything you need" (Luke 12:31).

Our God is the most gracious of Hosts. It doesn't matter if we are young or old -- He welcomes us just the same. He looks past the color of our skin, the length of our hair and the style of our clothes and sees right to our hearts. He knows our scars, our pain and our fears. And regardless of where we've been His invitation is given to all of us. "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). What a wonderful promise that is! No matter who we are, where we come from or what baggage we carry, when we answer His invitation to come to Him, He welcomes us with open arms. And there, when seated at His table, we will find a banquet filled with forgiveness, acceptance, and love.

"Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God" (Ephesians 3:17-19).

Accepted by Him,

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The God of My Strength

2011-11-06T17:55:00.000-08:00

View of Yosemite Valley and El Capitan

While visiting Yosemite this past week, I marveled at thebeauty and grandeur of this incredible National Park. In my last post, I wrote that the diversityof life showcased there is a testament of God’s creativity and artisticdesign. His artistry is also evident inthe rugged contrasts He creates in the park’s forested areas. The colors of the autumn foliage in comparisonto the steel grey of the valley’s granite walls took my breath away. We entered the park just as the last rays of sunlight filtered through the trees, and I became emotional witnessing the splendor of it all! In addition to the magnificent beauty of the park, there is one thing that never fails to startle me, andthat is seeing the rock climbers on the cliffs high above.

On the second afternoon in the park, I turned my focus to ElCapitan, the huge rock formation that towers 3,000 feet above the valley floor. This majestic piece of granite, with itssheer sides and craggy peak, draws climbers from all over the world. On this trip, there were a couple of climbersmaking their way to the summit that particularly grabbed my attention. I could see them in the distance, tiny specs on the side ofthe cliff, slowly making their ascent. Withtheir bodies flattened against the stone they placed hand over hand as they climbedupward to reach their goal. But, whatastounded me about these climbers most was what was right below them. There were two tents strapped precariouslyagainst the completely vertical cliff! Idiscovered that climbers often attach shelters to the sheer walls of El Capitan inorder to have a place to rest during their climb and even to provide themselveswith a place to sleep, away from the elements, through the cold night. The thought of sleeping while dangling 3,000feet above the ground completely unnerves me! But, to these brave individuals, hugging the cliff while inside a climbingtent provides much needed rest, comfort and protection.

Just as it is the climber’s mission to cling to the towering rockfor safety as he faces the elements, it is ours to cling to our Rock, JesusChrist. He is an immovable Rock, strongand mighty.

“The LORD is my Rock, my Fortress, and my Savior; my God is my Rock, inwhom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my placeof safety” (Psalm 18:2).

There are many names given to the Lord in the Hebrewlanguage. Each one describes His divine attributes. One of my favorites is El Sali – God of my Strength; God my Rock. The word “El” literally translates as “might,strength, power”; and the base word “Sala” – means “cliff or crag”. Together they describe our God as a Strong andMighty Rock. When we cling to that Rock,we are safe in His fortress and are granted the comfort and rest we need.

“The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe” (Proverbs 18:10).

The God of my Strength provides sure footing for us as weclimb precariously through the uncertainties in in life. No matter what storms swirl around us, or what challenges are in ourpath, He will provide us with protection. Our God will never let us go. When we stay close to Him, He will shelter us and give us the strength weneed to reach the goal. Today I am praising God for His mightystrength! Jesus, you are my Rock and Iam clinging to you!

Living for Him,

Sculpted by God

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As you are reading this post, I am enjoying a special timewith my husband in one of the most beautiful places in the world! Yosemite National Park is to me, the most spectacular place I have evervisited. God's hand carved out thisbeautiful valley through the use of ice and stone and today it is home toa myriad of different creatures -- black bear, bob cats, coyotes, mountain lions, deer and chipmunks to name a few! I love to sit at the base of one of the park’sbeautiful waterfalls and look up to the incredible rock formations above me, eachone chiseled to a distinctive shape by the Master Sculptor.

People from all over the world visit Yosemite on a regularbasis. It is not unusual to hear 5 or 6different languages being spoken as you walk along the trails and paths in thevalley. I think the variety of life inYosemite is a testimony to the creativeness of our God. He loves our unique characteristics andpersonalities and He has gifted us each differently, one from another. But, it is that uniqueness that makes Hiscreation so beautiful!

“God has given each ofyou a gift from His great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serveone another. Do you have the gift of speaking? Then speak as though God Himselfwere speaking through you. Do you have the gift of helping others? Do it withall the strength and energy that God supplies. Then everything you do willbring glory to God through Jesus Christ. All glory and power to Him forever andever! Amen” (I Peter 4:10-11).

Not everyone can do everything well. But, when we come togetherand use the individual gifts that He has given us, we can accomplish morethrough Him than we ever thought possible! When we bring our talents and skills together and work as one, we arethe Body of Christ.

“All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it”(I Corinthians 12:27).

I am so thankful to be part of that Body. All that we do for the Lord, whether using ahumble or great gift is a true blessing and pleases God, especially when wework as one for the One who so beautifully sculpted us.

Living for Him,

That Looks Beautiful on You

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In our culture today, we are constantly inundated with beauty tips. Throughmany forms of media we are promised that anti-wrinkle creams, the latestfashions or even cosmetic augmentation will somehow improve our lives and fillthe emptiness we feel inside. But, from God's perspective, our physicalqualities are of least importance. God sees our inner self, our heart, and oursoul. We cannot fill the void in our lives by “fixing” our external appearance.Physical beauty is lovely, but it does not last nor does it bring us true joy.

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (Proverbs 31:30).

Some of the most wonderful words I have heard a husband say to his wife were,“That looks beautiful on you.” This Christian sister tells that thosewords were the greatest compliment she had ever received. Was she wearing aparticularly nice looking outfit when her husband spoke them? No. Was herjewelry something out of the ordinary? No. It was what she was doing at the timehe said those endearing words that makes the statement so special to her.You see, she was reading her Bible.

Her husband had been watching her and observed her actively spending timewith the Lord. He saw the beauty God was producing in and throughher and he praised her for it. What a blessing! This husband could see thatGod’s Spirit was with his lovely wife and he admired the qualities that God wasdeveloping in her.

"But the fruit of the Spirit is: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. There is no law against these things” (Galatians 5:22-23).

Can we all develop this kind of beauty? Certainly! As we turn our lives overto Christ and seek to deepen our relationship with Him, He will transform usinto new, beautiful creations. This true beauty will be seen in our livesthrough the fruit we bear. As we turn our focus to the Lord, our hearts arechanged and our true beauty, the beauty of Christ, will shine for all to see.

Living for Him,

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Can't Steal My Joy!

2011-10-23T18:00:00.000-07:00

Years ago, when the children of a dear friend of mine were very small,they would say a phrase to each other that has stuck with me throughout theyears. When one of the children was upset with the other, hewould say they were "stealing his joy". I would smileas it was a sweet way to express their annoyance with each other. But, asI have thought about it I have wondered how often it is that our joy isactually "stolen". I don't mean our "happiness",but instead, joy - joy in the Lord. You see, true joy is agift from God and can only fade when we take our eyes off of Him. Thatkind of joy can't be taken from us unless we allow it to be. Happinessis dependent upon our circumstances, but joy happens in spite of them.

It was during an extremely challenging and painful time in my life that Ifirst learned this truth. I found that as I stopped focusing on thedifficulty and turned my attention to what the Lord was trying to teach methrough the situation, joy entered my life. As I began to trust God andbelieve that He had a plan for me that was good, the tiny glimmer of lightgrew. And as it grew, so did my strength. God then enabled me totravel through that difficult season in my life and feel the joy that onlyknowing Him brings. "The joy of the Lord is your strength"(Nehemiah 8:10).

When I began to focus on the Lord and His activity inand around my life I started to see things from a different view. Ibecame hungry for His Word and I avidly read and studied its pages. Iprayed and poured out my heart to Him...not just once or twice, but constantlythroughout the day. When I awoke during the night and couldn'tsleep, I asked Him what He wanted to tell me in that moment, realizing it wasHe who had opened my eyes. The more I came before Him, the more I wantedto be with Him...and the relationship grew bringing a surprising joy that I hadnever experienced before. In the midst of my sorrow, when I had lost somuch, God's loving embrace taught me to find the joy in Him. "But let all who take refuge in you rejoice; let them sing joyful praisesforever. Spread your protection over them, that all who love your name may befilled with joy" (Psalm 5:11).

And as it is promised in the 23rd Psalm, God brought me through thevalley. Now I cannot even imagine a day without Him. Stresses,difficulties and yes, some unhappy times may come and go in my life, but Iknow that through it all, He will be there to strengthen me. Nothing willtake my joy from me for the Lord is my Joy, my Strength and my Redeemerforever. Amen!

"Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, considerit an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith istested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for whenyour endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needingnothing" James 1:2-4).

Living for Him,

One Soul at a Time

2011-10-19T18:00:00.000-07:00

When our son was young, we affectionately called him,"Recycling Boy"! It was his job to make sure all of ourrecycling was taken out and put into the proper bin. Occasionally,(ok...more than occasionally), as I was cleaning the kitchen, I would call out,"Recycling Boy! I need you!" He would then come, like anysuper hero would, and obediently take all of our plastic, aluminum and glass tothe garage for the weekly pick up. It was important, we told him, not tobe wasteful. Recycling could turn aused, dented and dirty soda can into a brand new one.

Recycling today is something we do almost without thinking. City workers come by each week to pick up ourdiscarded items to be salvaged and reconditioned. But, long before we were in the habit of recycling,God was in the business. It was His planfrom the beginning! We can rejoice todaybecause He’s been saving the planet one soul at a time.

“This means thatanyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; anew life has begun!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)

There isn’t one person among us who can say that they’venever done anything wrong. Sins from ourpast have tarnished our hearts and brought an ugliness to our lives. Some of us may be thinking that the things wehave done and said are too much to be cleaned, too wrong to be forgiven. But that is not the case. None of us are beyond the transforming hands ofGod. He can and will forgive any whocome to Him with a contrite heart. Godloves to recondition our broken and tarnished souls creating new, clean vesselsthough which His love will shine. All weneed to do is humble ourselves before the Lord and ask Him to change andforgive us. When we do, thetransformation is amazing!

“Create in me a cleanheart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10).

All of us can be made new when we give ourselves to JesusChrist. He is the Great Recycler, whogave His life to save so many. Once weoffer ourselves to Him, He will change us into new creations. Our lost and lonely souls can be recoveredand turned into beautiful, new lives ready to be used by Him. I am so thankful for that! The things of the past are no more and we canbravely step forward into a new future with Him.

Recycled by Him,

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The Blessing of Trust

2011-10-16T19:45:00.000-07:00

In my walk with the Lord I have discovered an interestingtruth. The more I trust Him and take a step of faith, the closer myrelationship with Him becomes. Then, as my relationship deepens, trustingGod becomes second nature. It is a cycle that is truly encouraging to meand I welcome its revolution in my life.

A few weeks ago, after much prayer and discussion with myhusband, I decided to take that step of faith and quit my job. As many ofyou know, I had been working full time and driving an hour and a half each wayto the office. I believe that God brought me this job when we first movedto Northern California and I am extremely thankful for the time spent there. During the transition from our previous community to this new one, havingthe added income was a true blessing! But I also think that it wassomething that God only intended for a while. In recent months, it had becomeincreasingly clear that He wanted me to be able to focus on other areas in mylife and to devote more time to serving Him. The realistic side of me"ran the numbers" and did the calculations which pointed tocontinuing to work. In this difficult economy, when people are strugglingto get by, how could I simply choosenot to work? But, I felt an increasingly strong nudging to step out infaith and trust that God would provide.

“Jesus looked at themintently and said, ‘Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everythingis possible’” (Matthew 19:26).

I don’t think a truer statement has ever been made! With God, all things are possible. We don’t needto figure out how it will all work. Wejust need to trust God that if it is His will, He will make it happen. Martin Luther King Jr. once said that to “Takethe first step in faith, you don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.”

And take the first step I did. Then, wouldn’t you know it? God has made a way. He has provided a way to stretch our incomeenabling us to actually be better off financially than we were before I quit myjob. Things that were unseen to us whileI was still working became visible as we focused more intently on our Father. He provided a way! Amazing? Yes…that is our God. He loves tomake what seems impossible to us miraculously possible through Him.

"Ah, SovereignLORD, you have made the heavens and the earth by your great power andoutstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for you” (Jeremiah 21:17).

I am excited about this season of my life and where God isdirecting me! As I offer myself to Him,I am stepping out in faith once more. Hehas provided the time and resources to be able to serve Him in ways I am noteven aware of yet. But, I am listeningand trusting my God! He has shown me thatnothing is too difficult for Him to accomplish. And when I place my trust in Him,I am truly blessed.

Living for Him,

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The Dance

2011-10-11T19:13:00.000-07:00

Last night at my weekly Bible study, we were sharing times when we felt the loving-kindness of God. As the other ladies were talking, a special memory came to my mind. It happened during a time in my life when I was dealing with loss and great sadness. I was home alone, listening to worship music and praying. Soon, my prayers turned to praises and I stood up from my chair. I slowly began to dance across my living room to the tune playing through the speakers on my iPod. As I continued to quietly move to the music, I no longer felt alone. I could feel the arms of comfort from the One who was reminding me that He was there. My life was in His hands and because of that, all was well. In that moment, I felt peace tangibly return to my hurting soul.

That intimate encounter with my Savior inspired the following post, written several years later. I'd like to share it with you again as I continue to thank God for His presence in my life:

The Dance with My Father

I learned to love dancing at an early age. Both of my parents were avid dancers and I would accompany them on many of their outings. Under the guidance of my father, one of the first things I learned was to allow him to lead. I learned to be attuned to the gentle pressure of his fingertips on my back or the slightest movement of his hand around mine. If I ever tried to do a step without following his leading, I would stumble and get out of sync with him. The cohesive flow between us would cease and the dance would become awkward and shaky. But at those times, my father would patiently guide me back into step.

I have found it to be the same with my heavenly Father. As I have moved across the dance floor of my life, there have been times when I have chosen to ignore my Father’s leading. I have chosen my own path rather than following the one God had placed before me. Through my foolish pride I have not always trusted His directions. Sometimes it has been out of enthusiasm that I have been caught up in my own plans and have gone my own way. But at other times it has been out of direct disobedience to Him. The result of both has been the same. When I have failed to trust that God’s way was the best way I have gotten out of sync with Him and ceased to feel the peace that comes through His heavenly rhythm in my life.

Being out of step with God is exhausting, confusing and full of turmoil and pain. It is only by allowing Him to lead us that we can find true peace. “Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper” (Psalm 37:4).

When we have stumbled and forgotten how to dance with Him, He is still there, offering to guide us back into step. Our Father’s Word is trustworthy. Through it He offers direction and wisdom when we are lost and confused. He offers forgiveness when we have stumbled and fallen and He will gently pick us back up and continue to guide us…if only we allow Him to lead.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding;

in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Living for Him,

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Sharing His Beauty - To The Ends of the Earth

2011-10-09T19:30:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the first week of "Sharing His Beauty"! I am so glad you've joined me today as we link-up to give praise and thanksgiving to our Lord!

On this first Monday together I want to write about the blessings I have discovered through blogging. My initial thought, as I started my blog a year and a half ago, was to use it as a way to give back to the Lord for what He has done in my life. It was, and is, my prayer that as I tell my story and share what God has taught me over the years, readers who might stumble upon my blog would be encouraged and hopefully be drawn into a deeper relationship with our Savior.

"All of your works will thank you, Lord, and your faithful followers will praise you. They will speak of the glory of your kingdom; they will give examples of your power. They will tell about your mighty deeds and about the majesty and glory of your reign" (Psalm 145:10-12).

But, besides the joy of simply sharing my love of God with others, an interesting thing has happened. The world has become smaller. At this point in my life, I don’t have the ability to travel to the ends of the earth to tell of His greatness, but, through the incredible technology that is available to us today, my words can still go. I have discovered that those of you who visit The Beauty in His Grip are not just my physical neighbors. Many of you live in different states, countries and even on different continents around the world! That, to me, is an incredible blessing and shows just how amazing our God is. His word tells us to “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation” (Mark 16:15). And now, through His divine intervention, He has created a way for us to do just that. I am thanking Him today for planting the idea in inventors’ minds which began the great adventure of connecting the world through the internet.

I have also found such joy in meeting and getting to know so many of you though your comments and e-mails. You are each a true encouragement to me and are inspiring me as I share what is on my heart for the Lord. Thank you for stopping by to read my offerings to Him...and thank you to God for creating a way to bring us all together! My prayer is that you will feel God’s hand of comfort and peace upon you as you continue your walk with Him.

With thanksgiving and praise,

To link up with Sharing His Beauty, click on the "You are Next!" link below and enter your web site address in the space provided. You can read more about how this works by clicking on the "Sharing His Beauty" tab under the header of my blog. I hope to see you each Monday as we encourage each other and bring honor to our Lord as we tell of His greatness!

The Half Full Glass

2011-10-03T15:08:00.000-07:00

Normally, I’m a “glass is ½ full” kind of girl. But, every once in a while I get that reversed. I have so many blessings in my life, but sometimes, I get stuck thinking about the negatives. The other day my mind wandered back to a time in my life when I was struggling. I began to think about past mistakes and wrong choices that had long since been forgiven. My thoughts began to travel the gloomy road that leads to pessimism called “What If”. What if I hadn’t failed? What if different choices had been made? What if I had had more money? What if we hadn’t lost so much? Soon, the pessimism turned to self-blame and depression threatened to settle nicely in. I was having a real pity party. But praise God, I turned to Him! I knew that my attitude poor and I wasn’t showing the appreciation to God that He deserved. So, I prayed. I asked for forgiveness for dwelling on things that He had already released me from and asked for strength to remember my blessings. His answer was simple and direct:

“Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise” (Philippians 4:8).

It took some effort, but with God’s help, my mood turned around. I consciously focused on the blessings that God has given me and the wonderful things He has done in my life. I remembered His love, His grace and the sacrifice He made for me. I thought of the gift of my husband and family and the provisions God has given us. In retrospect, I saw that my complaints paled in comparison to the greatness of God’s generosity. I was humbled.

In that moment, I determined to look at my “glass ½ full” and always thank God for the blessings in my life. Not only does praising Him for who He is and thanking Him for what He does bring honor to our Lord; it also puts us in the right mindset to serve Him. As we go through our day with an attitude of praise we are able to focus on God and His promises rather than on ourselves. And when we look beyond ourselves, we please our Father.

“I will exalt you, my God the King; I will praise your name for ever and ever. Every day I will praise you and extol your name for ever and ever. Great is the LORD and most worthy of praise; His greatness no one can fathom. One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts. They speak of the glorious splendor of your majesty - and I will meditate on your wonderful works” (Psalm 145:1-5).

As a way to help change my focus, I am adding a new aspect to my blog. Beginning next Monday, October 10, please join me for a new weekly link-up, “Sharing His Beauty”. This will be a place where we can commend His works and tell of His mighty acts! So often we come to Monday mornings, already weary and worn out. The week has just begun, but we are counting the days until Friday. "Sharing His Beauty" is meant to help turn our focus to God and share the beauty we have found in His hands. Won't you join me as we come together in this place to encourage each other and honor Him by sharing our blessings? Let's start out the week giving Him praise! How does your glass look today?

Living for Him,

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Easing the Sting

2011-09-21T18:00:00.000-07:00

In the minutes following the birth of my first child 26 years ago, I surprised the doctor and my husband with a strange reaction. My labor was long and hard, but all through the many hours spent in that hospital bed, I knew I was working for something wonderful. The pain was intense, but the moment my son was placed in my arms and I first glimpsed his sweet face, I wiped the sweat from my brow, smiled bigger than I ever had before, looked up and exclaimed, "I want to do that again!" The doctor paused, laughed and then stated that in all the years of his practice, he had never heard a woman say that with such enthusiasm at that very moment! He might have been surprised, but I wasn’t. After 9 months of waiting and 19 hours of labor, all the hard work and energy had cumulated into a beautiful new life. I was filled with such joy that it couldn't be contained.

If only we could look at all the “labors” in our life with such joy! So often, we experience growing pains meant to form us into new, beautiful creations in God’s eyes, but the painful journeys can discourage us. We focus on the trial rather than the end result. God’s word promises that we can face our troubles with confidence and hope because God will use our difficulties to grow and shape us.

“We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love” (Romans 5:3-5).

Have you ever gone through a painful or challenging time but then experienced such blessings as a result that you would be willing to go through it again in order to come to an ever deeper relationship with Christ? I know that is a difficult idea to grasp. None of us like trials, let alone pain. But, when we remember that God uses everything in our life -- the good, the bad, the difficult, and the easy -- to mold and shape us into the women He created us to be, the sting of the journey is eased. When we can focus on Christ and on what He is doing through the pain, we can be sure that our faith will grow. And the end result will be beautiful.

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4).

Living for Him,

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Blessings in His Grip - God's Gift of Prayer

2011-09-14T18:48:00.000-07:00

Merriam/Websterdefines the word prayer as “an address or petition to God in word orthought; a set order of words used in praying; an earnest request or wish.” To me, that definition only scratches thesurface. I believe, and have found to betrue, that prayer is a relationship building form of communication with our Creator. It is, in itself, an act of worship. Through prayer our innermost thoughts anddesires are shared as well as our thanks and praises to the One who madeus. As a result of this intimate form ofcommunication, our relationship with God develops and our bond is strengthened. If we never engage in conversation with ourfriends or husbands, those relationships will quickly deteriorate. It is the same with God. As we seek to get to know Him more,communicating through prayer helps us grow closer and become more intimatelyconnected. “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart”(Jeremiah 29:13).

We shouldalso come before Him in prayer with expectancy and a willingness to hear fromHim! We can feel confident that when wehumble ourselves before God, He will hear all our prayers. “This is the confidence we have in approachingGod: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we knowthat He hears us - whatever we ask - we know that we have what we asked of Him”(1 John 5:14-15).

I am excited to announce that, incollaboration with my good friend and prayer partner Tricia, I am starting anew page in connection to this blog. Itsfocus is on prayer and specifically, praying through the Scriptures. Hebrews 4:12 says that “God’s Word is alive and powerful, sharper than a two-edged sword.” When we speak and pray God’s Word, we are coming into agreement with Him, anddemonstrating our faith in His answers. Inher book, Praying God’s Word, Beth Moore puts it extremely well, “When you speak God’s word out loud withconfidence in Him rather than in your own ability to believe, you are breathingfaith. Believing and speaking the truthof God’s word is like receiving blessed CPR from the Holy Spirit.”

Please join Tricia and me as we pray through the scriptures. We will beposting verses and accompanying prayers every few days. In addition, we will be sharing ideas andresources that we hope will be an encouragement to you as you seek to drawcloser to our Lord. You can find us byclicking on the link in the tab above (Blessings in His Grip) or directly byjoining: Blessings in His Grip - God's Gift of Prayer. Wehope you take a moment to explore the site and then, share how God has blessedyou through prayer.

Living for Him,

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The Rocky Road

2011-08-25T16:50:00.000-07:00

Have you ever had one of those days, or weeks, when nothingseems to go right? Have you had one ofthose times when even though good choices are being made, things keep goingwrong? When that happens I can’t helpbut ask God, “What’s going on? Are you mad at me?” But, I know that is not correct thinking. God doesn’t work thatway. Bad things happen for a variety ofreasons, but our Father being angry with us is not one of them. Trials come to all people, whether we arewalking in His ways or not. What isimportant is how we react to the challenges in our lives. If nothing ever went wrong, we would neverneed the protection of our Savior. If the roadwere always smooth, we wouldn’t look to Him for guidance. If we never endured consequences, we would neverlearn from our mistakes and if we relied only on ourselves, we would becomeexhausted and end up in a worse place than before.

The past couple of weeks have been challenging. To put itmildly, the road has been rocky. Work has been strenuous and mybody has been tired. My husband and Isold a car that was not economical only to have its replacement, the “new to us”car break down! After that, we learnedthat the the part we needed to fix it would not be available for an unknownamount of time, if ever! And, if thatweren’t enough, an issue from the past came back to haunt us financially. Strangely enough, right before each of theseevents, we had made a new, positive decision for Christ! My husband and I each decided to join a newBible study. I collaborated with a Christiansister to develop a new page connected to my blog on prayer (coming soon). I signed up to volunteer for a localministry. Together, we continued to makegood decisions regarding our finances with the mind set to be able to give moreback to God. I joked with my husbandthat it seemed as if “something” was trying to hold us back from following thepath God was leading us on. But, inreality, it is no joking matter. The enemywill try anything to distract a Christian from making a difference for Christ. “Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowlsaround like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8).

Whentrials come our way, it is crucial to look to God for guidance. He is the one who will see us through. If we allow ourselves to be distracted anddefeated by the bumps along the road, our eyes will be taken off our Lord and Guide,giving our enemy the chance to try to divert us from the path God has chosenfor us. “…And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We dothis by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects ourfaith” (Hebrews 12:1b-2a).

We also need to remember that no matter what troubles comeour way, or how deeply we are grieved, our Father will bring something goodfrom them, somehow, someway. We may notalways see the positive in any given situation, but we can trust God todeliver. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those wholove Him, who have been called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28).

So,let us stay strong in the Lord and keep our eyes on Him. He will help us as we travel rocky roads full ofdifficulty. God has shown me this in thepast, and He is showing this to me today. As I surrender my worries, my troubles and my challenges to Him, He isfaithful. Though we have been facingsome oddly difficult situations, we are keeping our eyes on Him. As a result, He has blessed us with a peaceand a comfort that strengthens us on our walk with Him.

Livingfor Him,

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The Blessing of a Friend (Retold)

2011-08-18T08:52:00.000-07:00

In an e-mail a few days ago, my good friend Tricia mentionedthat it was during my wilderness time, that we became the best of friends. This comment moved me not just because it istrue, but because it brought back to mind how she shared Christ’s love with mewhen I was at the bottom of life. Shesaw past all the ugliness and despair directly to my heart. She didn’t turnher back on me when it would have been so easy to do. And so, on this first day at Grace Café, I am posting this “re-write” of The Blessing of a Friend froma posting of last year. God is so good,and today, I again want to thank the Lord for blessing me with this beautifulsister in Christ. My friend, Tricia, has been beside me during the good timesand the bad. She has loved me even when I was unlovable and has never treatedme with anything other than kindness.

“A friend loves at all times,

and a brother isborn for adversity” (Proverbs 17:17).

When God brought Tricia into my life I was new to ourchurch and didn’t know very many people, but she always made me feel welcome.Her gentle spirit and sweet ways instantly drew me to her. It wasn’t longbefore I discovered that she had the gift of discernment and could always sensewhen something was on my mind or if I needed a hug. Throughout the years wehave laughed and cried and prayed together. She always shows Christ’s compassion and has always spoken the truth to me in love. During a time in my life when I had gotten offtrack, God used this wonderful Christian sister to point me back in theright direction. She has held me accountable and has helped me through manychallenges with her spiritual wisdom and prayer.

“The heartfelt counsel of a friend

is as sweet as perfume and incense” (Proverbs27:9).

Her devotion to Christ has been and still is an inspirationto me. Tricia is a dedicated and faithful servant to our Lord and is constantlyserving Him even beyond her own abilities. She relies on the Lord for herstrength and is unaware of how much He uses her to bless others. Even as I write this I am sure that she is notfully aware of the impact she has had on my life and that of my family. I know that when she comes face to face withour Savior, she will weep tears of joy as she hears the words, "Well done, good and faithful servant."

She once gave me a bookmark which reads: "the best antiques are old friends." I'd like to add… "The best friends are those who love the Lord!" Tricia loves the Lord with all her heart, mindand soul. I am truly blessed to call her my friend. Thank you Lord, for the blessing offriendship…and thank you for Tricia, your daughter and my sister in Christ.

Living for Him,

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Why I Believe (Pt. 2)

2011-08-11T19:48:00.000-07:00

God's Saving Grace

“I had only heard about you before,

but now I have seen you with my owneyes.”

Job 42:5

As I came to know God in my early years, I heard about His great love for me and how Hechose me to be in a relationship with Him. The tiny seedling of my faith grew with this knowledge and, nourished byHis love, the roots entered the fertile soil of my life. But then, as happens to all of us, the stormsof life came. I was surprised by thechallenges that I suddenly faced, though I should have looked at them asopportunities to grow, for God’s word tells us that we all will endure trialsat one time or another.

“Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it anopportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, yourendurance has a chance to grow” (James 1:2-3).

However, during that time, I made a nearly fatalmistake. When difficulties hit me and mylife spun out of control, I didn’t turn to the only One who could strengthen,comfort and guide me. Instead, I allowedthe seductive lure of this world to draw me into the wilderness where a sinfulchoice nearly destroyed my life. I lostsight of my Father. But God, in Hisfaithfulness, never lost sight of me.

To put it plainly and simply, God saved my life. He pulled me out of the pit in which I hadfallen and healed me. He restored my marriage and mended my family torn apartby the agonizing folly of my sin. Andfor this, I am forever grateful. In “A Life Saved”, I write more about thedepth of my sorrow during my painful journey in the wilderness. But, even though that time was painful, itwas in the wilderness that I grew to trust Him. When I realized God had not let me go, I relaxed into the strong arms ofmy Savior. When placing all my sins, mygrief and my pain at His feet, He placed His healing hand upon me. Though He allowed consequences into my lifethat tore at my heart, it was through these consequences that I learned justhow deep His love for me is.

“But consider the joyof those corrected by God! Do not despise the discipline of the Almighty whenyou sin. For though He wounds, He also bandages. He strikes, but His hands also heal” (Job5:17-18).

My God is great! Hebrought me through the fire and made me new. And just like the seed which only opens through the flame, my heartfully opened to God through His refining fire. When I surrendered my will to God and allowed Him to take complete control,my life turned around and I was made new. Yes, I have seenmiracles, for I have come to know the incredible saving grace of God. I have learned that no matter how far wefall, we are never beyond His reach. Godcan and will redeem us when we turn our lives completely over to Him.

Since that time in my life, I have faced other challenges,both large and small. But, I have cometo look at the trials and dilemmas that sometimes enter my life as opportunitiesto turn to God for strength. It was throughmy wilderness time that I learned to fully trust my Father. And now I know, that no matter where Godleads me, or what storms I will face, He will never leave my side. He is my Savior and to Him I owe my life.

Living for Him,

Post Script: Asdifficult as it is to reveal this part of my testimony, I believe that sharingwhat God has taught me through this time in my life is too important not to tell. My prayer is that someone somewhere will readthe words I have written above and be encouraged. You are never beyond the love of God. No matter what you have done or where youhave come from, He is there, patiently waiting for you to come to Him. When you surrender your life to Him He willbless you in ways you never imagined and you will find the peace that yourhurting soul is longing for.

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Why I Believe (pt. 1)

2011-08-02T15:37:00.000-07:00

When people ask why I believe or what the foundations of myfaith are, it is easy to open the Bible and point to the answers within itspages. But, that doesn’t truly explainmy faith, for my faith comes from deep within me, born of my experiences and themanifestation of God in my own life. Sobear with me as I share a bit of my story. Below is the first of two parts. The second will come next week. My prayer is that as you read the words of my testimony, God will becomemore real to you and you will feel the blessing of His hand upon your life as His hand has been upon my own.

The Early Years

I have always had an awareness of God. From my earliest days, I remember knowingthat there was something beyond myself – a Creator that set the world intomotion. But, for years, that is all I knew. I didn’t understand the gift of salvation norhow much God truly loves us. I grew upgoing to church and hearing the lessons taught in Sunday school, but myunderstanding didn’t go beyond the stories of ancient times that seemed farremoved from my life in the suburban U.S. My faith was shallow and immature, like a seed planted just below thesurface. But still, it was there,waiting in dormancy for the season of my life to change.

As the years passed, I experienced the usual growingpains. I went through my teen-aged yearswith a few bumps and bruises and plenty of questions about life that didn’tseem to have answers. My awareness ofGod was still there, but my vision of Him was vague in its clarity. I didn’t understand how real and close Heactually was. Although I didn’t fullygrasp the depth of God’s existence, I was grateful for the blessings that Hebrought into my life. At 19 I met theman I knew God intended for my husband. This was a strange realization to have considering my faith was solimited and immature at that time. But,God works in ways that are beyond our comprehension. We married and several years later we wereblessed with two beautiful children. Butit wasn’t until I entered my 30s that my God became completely real andtangible to me. It was as if, one Sundaymorning, a light was switched on. I satwith my family in church, listening to a message from the pastor, and heard forthe first time that God chose me and wanted a relationship with me.

“Even before He made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ
tobe holy and without fault in His eyes” (Ephesians 1:4).

He chose me? That was an incredible thought. I was humbled and in awe that the Creator ofthe universe would have more than a passing thought about me. The discovery that He wanted a relationshipwith me was amazing. From that momenton, as I opened my heart to Him, my small seed of faith germinated and grew andmy relationship with Him deepened. Ifound that my desire to give back to Him increased the more I came to know Him. Through His Word, I learned of Hischaracter and through prayer, worship and quiet times, I found that characterto be true. God brought people into mylife to mentor me through Bible study and fellowship and gradually, the God whohad seemed intangible was becoming more and more real to me. He was part of me and I couldn’t imagine mylife without Him. But still, I had muchto learn about myself and the God of Love. Life is not always easy. Challengescome. Mistakes are made. But our God is always faithful. Soon I would come to learn just how faithfulHe is.

And that, as they say was only the beginning...

Living for Him,

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Stop, Look And Listen

2011-06-27T19:50:00.000-07:00

It is easy to say, “I trust God” when things go smoothly or are easy to understand. But, when push comes to shove and circumstances in life require us to wait or are beyond our comprehension, how easy is it really to trust Him and His timing? Sometimes we can become so fearful of losing an opportunity that we move too fast and end up jumping into a situation not blessed by God. Often we mistakenly take matters into our own hands when God’s capable hands have the situation already under control. When confronted with a major decision, we need to remember to stop, replace our fear with trust, and then pray.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

When I was a child, my mother taught me a poem to help me remember to be careful when crossing the street. In turn, I taught it to my children. And today, I still think of it whenever I take that first step onto a road.

“Stop, look and listen before you cross the street.

Use your eyes and use your ears before you use your feet!”

When those wise words are followed, we will avoid stepping into a harmful and dangerous situation. And, when those wise words are applied with a Biblical perspective to the choices in front of us, we are better equipped to make the right decision. When we stop to pray, look in God’s word and listen for His answers we will avoid taking that dangerous wrong step. But how do we learn to hear Him?

The shepherds of ancient Israel spent much of their lives in close proximity to their sheep. As the shepherd watched for hidden dangers in the fields and fed and watered their flock, the shepherd and sheep learned to recognize each other easily. Each night the shepherd led his sheep into the safety of the sheepfold. Often, the fold was comprised of more than one shepherd’s flock. But, the voice of the shepherd was so familiar to his sheep that when night passed, one call would bring only the sheep which belonged to him to the gate.

As we come to know our Lord and Shepherd, we too, will learn to recognize His voice.

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me” (John 10:27).

God is our Shepherd and Guide who lovingly cares for us throughout our lives. As we pray for His guidance when faced with a difficult choice we can be sure that He will direct us to safety. So, rather than running on ahead of our Lord, we need to actively pursue His answers by drawing near to Him. For the closer we come to Him, the more easily we will recognize His voice. As we step out in faith, we need to remember to kneel down and pray.

Trusting Him,

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The Time in Between

2011-06-02T16:30:00.000-07:00

I am up long before the sun most mornings and I have come to recognize a special time that exists right before the new day dawns. There is a moment in time, between the night and the day, when the darkness fades but the sky has not seen the first rays of the sun. The world is hushed and still. Birds have not begun their morning songs and yet the crickets have long since stopped their chirping. It is as if in that moment the world is paused – listening and waiting for something. There is a sense of anticipation in the air as all of creation is silent. And then, God whispers its name and the world awakens with a shout of joy!

I am in that moment of waiting -- the quiet time between the past and the future. And I see from the words some of my blogging friends have written, they are too. As I read their stories, I join them in thankfulness for what God has already brought us through. We are not in the valley but we have not all reached the mountain top. Even though the time in between is calm and often peaceful, it is not always easy. Because our human nature wants us to reach our destination and obtain our goals quickly, the time in between can be frustrating, as if we are on the edge of something great that is just beyond our reach. But, it is a necessary time, this moment in between, when God prepares us for what is to come. It is a time of listening and waiting for His whisper that is sure to come.

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it’” (Isaiah 30:21).

The time in between is when God teaches us patience and grows our trust in Him. It is a refining time when God continues His redeeming work in us. As we place our hope in Him and patiently wait for His voice, we can be sure that He will speak. His timing is always perfect. He alone knows when we are ready for the mountain top.

“This vision is for a future time. It describes the end, and it will be fulfilled. If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed” (Habakkuk 2:3).

As I wait, I am trusting Him with joyful anticipation. I know that this time in my life, just like the quiet moment before the dawn, is a vital time. I welcome His hand on me as he shapes and grows me, preparing me for what is to come. One day soon I know I’ll hear His whisper saying, “Awaken, it is time.”

Living for Him,

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Cleaning House

2011-05-20T05:31:00.000-07:00

As the clouds of winter quickly blow away, the bright rays of the spring sun shine through my windows revealing the need for a thorough house cleaning. The temptation is to simply draw the blinds and ignore the dust, but I know that doing that won’t make my home clean. Instead, what I need to do is allow the light to shine in as brightly as possible and do a real spring cleaning!

It is also a good time, as it is every day, to open up the curtains of my own life and examine the contents of my heart. Are there areas within me which need to be dusted off and wiped clean? Is the beauty God wants to reveal covered with a layer of dust? My desire is to have a pure heart and so I come before my Lord and ask Him to make me aware of any areas which need attention.

“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me” (Psalm 51:10).

Not many people enjoy the work of house cleaning, let alone facing the neglected areas of our spiritual purity, but when we stop to consider God’s love for us and the ultimate sacrifice He made for us, we can’t help but want to please Him. And having a clean heart will bring joy to our Father. When we submit ourselves to the Lord and ask Him to purify our hearts, His loving hands will draw to the surface the areas He wants made clean. Then, He will guide us as we seek to honor Him in all we do.

“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life” (Psalm 139:23-24).

What places are there in our lives where we have let grime accumulate? Does a critical or complaining attitude need to be adjusted? Is there resentment brewing that needs to be dealt with? Or, are we ignoring guilt and past sin? Any area, large or small, that needs to be cleansed can be made new and sparkling when we open the shades and let the Holy Spirit’s light in. As He reveals the areas in our lives that require His touch, God will come alongside us and give us what we need to become right before Him. And when we become right before the Lord, He will bless us with the beautiful, sparkling benefits of a clean house.

Living for Him,

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Perceived Limitations

2011-05-03T12:01:00.000-07:00

Last Thursday I had an experience at work that both humbled and encouraged me. It had been a challenging day with a heavy work load. I knew the following day would be much the same. Because it was the end of the month, there were piles of jobs on my desk that I needed to bill and knew I only had the next day to get it all done. As I was plugging away at my work, I heard my name being mentioned from my supervisor’s office. I was curious, and then, a few moments later, a co-worker came in and told me that “since I had so much time on my hands” I needed to help with some work from another department the following morning. I was stunned! I couldn’t speak for a moment and I think I must have looked like a deer frozen in the headlights of a car waiting for its impact. To put it mildly, I was surprised. When I recovered my voice, I told my co-worker that I would help and we should touch base in the morning. However, I must confess, that after that brief encounter, I became annoyed. I wasn’t so much annoyed at my co-worker, but rather, at my supervisor who didn’t ask me directly. I resented the fact that it was “assumed” I wasn’t busy. As I left for the day and headed to my car, I knew I had a poor attitude. I tried to shake the feelings of resentment I was experiencing, but was having a difficult time letting them go.

The next morning I got out of bed with a heaviness upon me. I headed straight to the couch where I spend my quiet time with the Lord each day. I voiced my concerns to Him and asked for forgiveness for my attitude. I prayed for strength and patience and to be able to get through the day “well.” I wanted to be able to shine for Him, but knew that if I were feeling resentful, His light wouldn’t be very easy to see in me! So, I submitted myself and my day to Him. Well, God’s plan for me that day put a smile on my face…and that smile is still here today!

Friday was a good day. I was getting all of my own responsibilities done in addition to helping the person my supervisor had sent to me the day before. I focused on relying on the Lord for my strength and attitude and as always, He was faithful! When I reminded myself of Paul’s words to the people at Ephesus, “Work with enthusiasm, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people” (Ephesians 6:7), I knew God would give me the strength to do so.

You would think that lesson would have been enough, but the story doesn’t end there! God wasn’t finished teaching me yet! He must have known that I still had a lot to learn because as I was getting through the work that was placed before me, a funny thing started happening. People began coming to me, one after another, all throughout the day to ask for help with their work. I had phone calls from some of our employees whom I never normally deal with! I helped to schedule jobs for another branch. Another co-worker came and asked me to help solve a problem that she couldn’t figure out…and she had never, ever asked for my help before! I was even asked to assist my supervisor in a special project. These requests to help continued to be asked of me all through the day. And all throughout the day I kept my focus on God and working as though working for Him. I became invigorated and encouraged. A comment was even made to me on the brightness of my smile in the face of so much work. Surprisingly, or maybe not so surprisingly, all the assignments were completed by the end of the day!

God has a sense of humor, doesn’t He? When I thought I couldn’t finish my own work, let alone help one other person, God showed me that by relying on His strength I could do that and so much more than I ever thought I could! “For I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).

When our heart is set on God, we receive our strength from Him. As I was working both on my responsibilities and assisting others, a peace and a joy settled upon me. My attitude improved and I enjoyed my day! As my realization grew to what God was doing, my smile also grew. I was, and still am, humbled by our God, who cares so much that He would lovingly teach me to change my poor attitude and my short-sighted perspective. When we rely on God for our strength, we can accomplish anything He wants us to accomplish. As I sit here now, writing these words, I am excited to think of all the applications of this truth for each area of my life. By putting aside our plans, our agendas and our perceived limitations, He can and will use us to accomplish great things for Him. I am so thankful that on my journey in this life, God is teaching me how to be sure my reactions in all situations reflect Christ’s presence in me.

Living for Him,

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:14-16).

Tethered with Christ

2011-04-22T19:53:00.000-07:00

In Connie Cavanaugh’s new book, "Following God One Yes at a Time", she shares an e-mail from a woman who had recently moved past her fears while going through an exercise in faith at a women’s retreat. Her story reminded me of an event from my own life. Several years ago, during a weekend conference in the beautiful Sierra Mountains outside of Yosemite National Park, I surprised myself by signing up for the high ropes course. I had never done anything remotely like that since the tree climbing days of my childhood. But, I figured that being secured in the safety harness would remove my fear once I was above the ground. So, I boldly joined the other women already on their way to test their courage.

There were several different segments of the course beginning with a climbing wall. I made it to the top and back down without incident. My confidence grew as I traversed the ropes without faltering. But then…I got to the “Poles”. At first glance, they seemed innocent enough – three straight, telephone-like poles standing side by side reaching 35 feet up into the air. The guide strapped me in the harness, gave me instructions and up I went, hand over hand until I reached the top. The idea was that once the climber reached the top of the pole, she was to somehow maneuver herself so she was standing on top of it. Well, that is easier said than done! However, after some creative stretching, twisting and reaching, I managed to hoist myself to the “summit”.

Standing tall, I proudly surveyed the surrounding area. The trees looked beautiful from this vantage point and the cloudless sky seemed almost close enough to touch. I was pleased with my accomplishment. But then, after hearing the cheers from my friends on the ground, I made a mistake and looked down. Anxiety immediately hit me as the realization of my situation grew…My next step was to jump off! The guide encouraged me to simply take a breath, leap out into the air and grab a trapeze that was there for just that purpose. Fear gripped me in a way I had never experienced and I froze. My stomach churned and my arms hung heavily and motionless at my sides. My head told me that it was safe to jump, but my body wouldn’t obey. I knew that the harness and its tether would keep me from crashing to the ground 35 feet below, but in my fear, I couldn’t move.

How often do we experience similar situations in our walk with Christ? As we come to know Him, our excitement and enthusiasm grows. The newness of our understanding of His love for us fills us with joy and our thankfulness for His gift of salvation makes our hearts long to serve Him. But, often, there are barriers that hold us back. We may think we aren’t talented enough, smart enough or young enough. We may compare ourselves to others we see already serving Him and think, “What do I have to offer when that person is so much more equipped than I am?” Sometimes the memory of our life before we were Christians or our failures since hinders us. What is the common thread? Fear. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, and fear of man. But, we need to remember that when God is with us, we can put aside our fears. “The LORD is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me?” (Hebrews 13:6). God is faithful and we can trust Him to help us as we seek to follow Him.

God created us to serve Him. We may not even be aware of how or where He wants to use us, but when we step out in faith, offering ourselves to Him, He will hold us up. When we look to Christ for our strength, He is our harness, keeping us securely in His grip. “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” (Isaiah 41:10).

And what happened regarding my predicament on top of the 30 foot pole? Rather than staying where I was, frozen in my fear and embarrassment, I took that leap of faith! Instead of depending on my own strength and my own abilities, I relied on the tether which was holding me fast. As I leapt out into the air, the wind rushing past my face, exhilaration hit me as the meaning behind that exercise was made clear. I discovered in that moment, that freedom from fear comes when we place our trust in the Lord.

Living for Him,

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Perspective - by Guest Writer Natalie Sumetz

2011-04-17T19:04:00.000-07:00

I am so pleased to be able to share the following post with all of you. It is written by Natalie Sumetz, who I am blessed to have as my niece. I pray that her words touch your heart as they did mine and that you are encouraged by God's truths that she shares.

Blessings, Joan

Thursday morning I learned that a colleague of mine from Compass had passed away. I can't describe the ache in my heart as I read those words. My colleague was diagnosed with a brain tumor just a handful of days prior. Before they could undergo surgery or start radiation he passed away at home in his sleep.

My co-worker was a devoted husband, loving father and caring friend. For the past few days I can't help but think on the countless times I enjoyed conversations about family and faith during my 5 years at Compass. He gave me advice and encouragement. I always felt like he was looking out for me. Since I left Compass, now 4 years ago, we've kept in touch and our families have swapped Christmas cards. Oh how my heart constricts when I think of his wife. She is left widowed at age 47. She now will raise their 16 year old daughter by herself and support their older daughters through college. These girls will never have the opportunity to have their dad hold their arm as they walk down the aisle on their wedding day. They will never have their father there to meet and cuddle their sweet babes. Devastation rocks the heart and mind. But, my friend believed in Jesus. Although we grieve, he rejoices. Although we ache, he is pain free. Although we might have confusion, he is at peace.

Accept the way God does things, for who can straighten what he has made crooked?

This verse from Ecclesiastes 7 has given me such great comfort in so many different occasions and I find it ever so appropriate now. We won't understand why God called him home until we are standing in His mighty presence. God's ways are not our ways. If we could comprehend all the crazy crooked paths then how could there be need for a God who designed them?

It feels that the term Perspective has been ever present in my mind for several weeks now. I've heard countless stories and explanations of different journeys experienced and it's amazing to me how so much can change through perspective. How rocky is your road? For some it can become their center. What they revolve around. They pour out their heart detailing their experience, analyzing their situation or worrying about the outcome. We believe our voyage is significant. And truly it is, to us.

History merely repeats itself. It has all been done before.
Nothing under the sun is truly new.

-Ecclesiastes 1:9

Yet, someone has experienced what we have. Somewhere a heart aches with the same burning as ours. And when we take time to view our path through the eyes of perspective, we learn that perhaps our walk isn't quite as crooked as we first thought.

Just a few weeks ago I learned of my Great Aunt Josie's rocky road of child bearing. She carried 9 (yes, nine) babies to nearly full term only to have them enter Heaven before they were able to see the light on earth. It blew my mind to fathom the devastation she has experienced. It put my own journey in such a perspective that I fall to my knees and thank the Lord for his tremendous blessings.

So often we contemplate the "Why me, Lord?" and forget the concept of "Why not me?". A verse shared with me several years ago resonates in my heart as I consider this.

God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ. -2 Cor. 1:3-5

We may not understand why we must go through our trial, but we are promised that God, who is the mighty Comforter, will hold us firmly in the palm of his hand. As our heart heals and as we evaluate our journey, we'll find opportunities to share the comfort instilled in our soul.

I can't help but quote the lyrics of singer/songwriter Ginny Owens, who has been blind since the age of two.

The pathway is broken
And the signs are unclear
And I don't know the reason why You brought me here
But just because You love me the way that You do
I'm gonna walk through the valley
If You want me to

Cause I'm not who I was
When I took my first step
And I'm clinging to the promise You're not through with me yet
So if all of these trials bring me closer to you
Then I will go through the fire
If You want me to

It may not be the way I would have chosen
When you lead me through a world that's not my home
But You never said it would be easy
You only said I'd never go alone

So when the whole world turns against me
And I'm all by myself
And I can't hear You answer my cries for help
I'll remember the suffering Your love put You through
And I will walk through the valley
If You want me to

This song portrays the concept beautifully. I believe Peter stated it perfectly when he wrote "There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while." (1 Peter 1:6). May we keep our perspective on Christ as we tread through the valley and our faith will prove strong when we have conquered the mountain.

Trusting in Him, Natalie

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Our Sure Foundation

2011-04-04T15:26:00.000-07:00

Yesterday morning, while speaking on Jesus as teacher, our pastor recounted one of Jesus’ great lessons from the Sermon on the Mount. He spoke of the importance of building our lives upon a firm foundation in order withstand trials that are sure to come our way. As he spoke I couldn’t help but compare my own life to the two men in Jesus’ story:

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash” (Matthew 7:24-27).

Over the years, God has blessed me in so many ways. One of those was, and is, the gift of my husband. God brought Roy into my life when I was quite young. I met him at college when I was 18 and shortly thereafter I knew he was the man God planned for me to share my life with. We married when I was 19 and he was just 22. Since that time, 30 years have come and gone, but through it all God has been faithful. We have shared much in our life together – children, homes, love, joy... And like many other people we have also had difficult seasons in our life. There have been storms that have come, either through circumstance or by human folly, that have left us battered and bruised. But because we have built our marriage upon the Rock of Jesus Christ, when those storms came, our house still stood.

In James 1:2 we are told not to be surprised when troubles come our way. Instead, we are to look at them as opportunities for joy because of what God will show us through them. We have found that to be so true. Without the challenges that we have faced together, we would not have seen God’s hand upon our lives in the same way. The miracles He has shown us would have remained hidden and the joy of His presence would not have been realized. In that same verse, there is one word that stands out to me…and that word is ‘when’. “Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.” God’s word doesn’t say ‘if’ or ‘maybe’. It tells us that trials will come one day in one form or another. The wise thing to do is to be prepared. Just like the wise man who built his house upon a rock, our lives and marriages can withstand any storm that hits when we have built them upon life’s strongest foundation – Jesus Christ.

As I sat in church that morning warmth spread over me and I acknowledged the joyful truth that by having Christ as the Rock upon which we have built our life together…He has enabled us to weather life’s storms and come through them victoriously. We remain confident that though challenging and painful circumstances will sometimes beat against our house, our God remains the same. I am praising Him for His steadfastness and love. He has, He is, and He will strengthen us for all that we are to face, for our God is a God who supports us through the storms. He is our Rock and our Sure Foundation. He is Jesus Christ. Amen.

Living for Him, with thanks,

The Dreams on Our Hearts

2011-03-13T17:56:00.000-07:00

One year ago today, I sat down at my computer and wrote my first post for The Beauty in His Grip. The thoughts going through my mind at that time were not dissimilar to the ones I think now. Thankfulness, gratitude, joy and humbleness at His sacrifice top the list. I longed to give back to the Lord in some way for every time He picked me up, dusted me off and helped me back on His path for my life. And so, I wrote. The desire on my heart was to share of the blessings He has given me and the lessons He has taught me with those who might read my words. My dream was that in this small way, I could reach others for Christ and He would be pleased. Since that time, much has happened in my life and family and God has continued to show His faithfulness every step of the way. He has brought us through some trying times and has shown His love time and time again. Throughout this year, during challenges and times of uncertainty my faith has been strengthened. In turn, His blessings have showered down. I am so truly grateful for His hand upon my life and my heart is full of joy.

Now, as I look to the future, my dreams are growing. I feel led to continue writing, but I also feel stirrings within me for more ways to serve God. I wake up in the night with thoughts and ideas coming so fast that sleep evades me for hours. Some ideas are big, and some are small, but however He leads me, I pray that He enables me to serve Him as He sees fit. Sometimes I feel that I am ill-equipped and that I have little to offer that could be of use to Him. But then I am reminded of Peter’s words in 1 Peter 4:10: “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.” We are each created to serve our Father in heaven and He has gifted us with talents and abilities that are unique to us. One person may find joy in painting, another in singing, still another in writing or teaching or even listening to others. Each of these things can be used to further His Kingdom. No matter how large or small our talents may seem to us, once we realize that they are gifts from our Father, and we submit them to Him, He can and will use them. We just need to take that leap of faith and see where God takes us.

During this next year, as I explore more ways to serve, I am excited to find out what He has in store for me. Step by step He is strengthening me as I am learning to truly rely on Him. I trust where He is leading me, for I know that when God places dreams on our hearts, He will enable us to reach them. And so, I humbly offer myself to the Lord. I pray that He uses the gifts He has given me, both the ones I am vaguely aware of and the ones yet to be discovered, to bring honor and glory to Him.

Living for Him,

“If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen.” (I Peter 4:11)

P.S. I've put my first year of The Beauty in His Grip into book form. If you'd like a copy, you may view and order through the preview below. I pray that this is a blessing to you.

The Beauty in His Grip Volume One, March 2010-2011 by Joan Davis

Released

2011-02-19T18:56:00.000-08:00

As thoughts have come and gone throughout the days, I have often been carried back to a time in my life when a close friend, whom I greatly admired, had so disappointed and confused me that I became disillusioned with friendship and established norms. It even shook my confidence as a mother and a wife. And during that time, many years ago, as my mind tried to cope with the pain of cruel words that stung my heart, my self-esteem was damaged. This is a burden that I carried with me for many years, constantly reliving the experience. I would go over and over that time, replaying each conversation and every barbed word that was colored with manipulation, and wonder if the person really knew what they did to me or if they were sorry at all. In Brandon Heath’s song, “I’m Not Who I Was”, he sings of a past relationship colored with pain, and the heart changes that come through forgiveness. When I first heard this song I searched my heart and quickly saw that I was holding onto a pain that I needed to let go and leave at the feet of Jesus. I understood that by constantly reliving those memories and allowing the bitter root of an unforgiving heart to grab hold of me, I was only hurting myself more. I was enabling myself to be kept under the stronghold of the person whose actions had hurt me years ago.

When people have wronged us, the damage can be great. Pain and anger from situations long past can still color how we experience life today. But God has the answer to our grief. He has given us instructions how to let go of the pain through His own example. We are to forgive. “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you” (Colossians 3:13). As you read this, you may be thinking, just as I was, that the person who caused such pain doesn’t deserve forgiveness…and you are right. No one does. But that’s where mercy comes in. God gave us the ultimate example through His forgiveness of our sins, both past, present and future. We didn’t deserve His forgiveness. We didn’t earn it, for we couldn’t. Instead, God forgave us out of love.

In His great wisdom God tells us that by forgiving others it releases us from the chains that keep us imprisoned in our agony. It allows us to release our anger and receive the healing we so desperately need. Forgiving others spares us from the consequences of living out of an unforgiving heart. It doesn’t mean that we need to put ourselves back into a situation that is dangerous or would cause further harm. Forgiveness is not saying what someone did to us was right or just. It is submitting it to God, knowing that He will take care of it. Forgiveness is a matter of the heart and the decision we make to release our pain to Jesus. It is a conscious choice. God’s word says to “Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken” (Psalm 55:22). Our God is more than strong enough to handle everything that imprisons us. He holds the key that will set us free.

Are there people in your past, maybe some who have already left this earth, who have hurt you? Do they have control of your heart even now? Then, come to Jesus. Let go of the pain and leave it at His feet. He will release you from the chains that hold you to a life of bitterness and sorrow. And as you pray for the strength to let go of the ache you feel, God will come and cover you with His healing love. He will comfort you and lead you into a life where you are free to experience His joy and peace. And that, dear friends, is the miracle of amazing grace.

Living for Him,

More Than A Vending Machine

2011-01-27T13:58:00.000-08:00

Ahhhh! The wonderful invention of the vending machine! It conveniently stands as a beacon of contentment in most break rooms, outside stores, in school cafeterias and at gas stations. We simply slip in a few coins, make a selection, and out comes our treat. We can choose from a variety of tasty items, all perfectly designed to curb our hunger and satisfy our thirst. As long as we have change in our pockets, (and the machine still works), we know that our requests can be immediately granted and our cravings curbed.

Often we think of God as our own personal vending machine. We plunk in a prayer and expect immediate satisfaction to our requests. When the answer to our prayer is a quick “yes”, we are pleased, but when the answers we receive are seemingly slow to come or aren’t what we expect, we become disappointed. We ask for this and for that, forgetting, or not really understanding, that getting what we want isn't the true purpose of prayer. Yes, God wants to give us the desires of our hearts, but there is more behind His willingness to hear our longings.

When we pray we shouldn’t demand our own way, but rather, ask and discover what He wants for us. “Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). God loves us and knows what is best for us in every situation. When we align our prayers to His will, we can pray with confidence knowing His answer is the right one. “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us - whatever we ask - we know that we have what we asked of Him” (I John 5:14-15).

We may wonder, then, why we should pray when God already knows our every need. The answer? Prayer is the key to the heart of God. We were created to have a personal and intimate relationship with Him. Through prayer that relationship is formed and when we linger in His presence, it is cultivated and nurtured. In his book, Come Thirsty, Max Lucado writes that we should “Think of prayers less as an activity for God and more as an awareness of God.” And we should “Seek to live in uninterrupted awareness. Acknowledge His presence everywhere (we) go.” When we communicate through prayer, we are affirming the existence of God in our life and actively acknowledging Him as the source of all power. As a result, our faith increases and our relationship with Him deepens.

Jesus shows us a perfect example of prayerfulness throughout the pages of God’s Word. He was an intercessor while He was here on earth, praying for those who were sick and suffering and He prayed for His disciples and friends. He even prayed for the believers who were not yet born…including you and me. Even now, Jesus continues His ministry of intercession as He sits on His throne at the right hand of God. “I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message” (John 17:20). As we come alongside Him in prayer, God allows us the incredible privilege to be participants in His answer. Through Him, our prayers have power. “The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results”(James 5:16). When we allow God to use us as instruments for His glory, we will see His mighty hand do great work in our lives and in the lives for whom we pray.

Does God want us to pray for everything in our life - For strength, courage, health, jobs, our relationships and paying the bills? Yes, of course! We are His children. He loves us and wants us to bare our hearts to Him. When we go to Him in faith, with thankful hearts, we can be confident that He hears and answers all our prayers. He knows what is best for us. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).

During this new year, I am excited to be "Going Deeper" in my relationship with Him. As I pray…as I keep on praying…I am confident that the God of All Creation will hear me and bless my efforts to draw near to Him. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you”(Matthew 7:7).

Going Deeper,

Be sure to visit Spiritual Sundays for more devotionals whose writers pray will bless you today!

For The Joy of It

2011-01-16T22:00:00.000-08:00

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Have you ever stood by the ocean, gazing out beyond the crashing waves to the distant horizon? Have you sat by a crackling fire, feeling its warmth and relaxing in the comfort it brings? Has the simple pleasure of watching a sleeping infant ever filled your heart with such unexpected joy that tears formed in your eyes? These things and so many more are blessings from our Father. We do them, because we find joy in them. The reading of God’s Word is also a blessing. However, I think it’s safe to say that reading the Bible often gets relegated to little snippets here or there, or fit in between other “tasks” to be completed in our day. But, why does that happen? Many of us love reading in general. We subscribe to book clubs, magazines, newspapers and blogs. But when it comes to reading the Scriptures, we often put it last, thinking of it as something we have to do, or should do…not something we want to do. How can we change that attitude? First, we need to understand what God has for us within its pages.

Comprised of sixty-six books in the Old and New Testaments, the Bible is the infallible Word of God. In it we read of God’s redemptive love and grace. His words guide us, lead us and give us hope. Through it God gives us the tools necessary to face any situation that comes our way. It is full of action, intrigue, beautiful poetry, colorful personalities and drama. And through it all, we are exposed to the very character of God. “All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip His people to do every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16-17).

God desires a relationship with us. He loves us deeply and created His Book to teach us and draw us closer to Him. That is also my desire – to be closer to Him. And what better way is there than by connecting with Him through His Word? “Jesus answered, ‘Whoever loves me will keep my Word. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Whoever doesn’t love me doesn’t keep my words. The word that you hear isn’t mine. It is the word of the Father who sent me’” (John 14:23-24). I don’t want to take this wonderful privilege for granted. And so, as part of “Going Deeper” with Him, I’m jumping into His Word with enthusiasm. After all, I often spend hours with those I love, doing nothing except keeping company with them simply for the pure enjoyment of it. Why not, then, spend more time with Him? We can do this through Bible studies, daily reading, memorization of the Scriptures and simply opening His Book and enjoying His words. As I reach for my Bible each morning, I am remembering that His Word is living and active. I am excited to hear what He has to say to me as I read, study and meditate upon the Scriptures. It is a joy to know that our Creator loves us and wants us to know Him! And so, I’m reading His Word simply for the joy of it.

Going Deeper,

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105).

Going Deeper

2011-01-09T13:55:00.000-08:00

Several years ago our family was blessed with the opportunity to vacation in Hawaii. We enjoyed this time away from the hustle and bustle of home, relaxing in the peaceful atmosphere of the island. One of the things that I truly enjoyed was to swim in the warm waters of the tropical Pacific. I had never snorkeled before and was excited to try it. But, as I first entered the water leaving the safety of the shore, I felt some apprehension. What was awaiting me beneath the waves? Were there dangers in the area of which the other swimmers were unaware? My excitement, however, outweighed my fear and I continued in.

As I swam across Honolua Bay on the island of Maui, I carefully dipped my face in the water to view the scene below me. Wonder and amazement filled me as I witnessed the activity beneath the surface. There were hundreds of colorful fish darting in and out between the coral only yards below me. Some were playfully chasing each other while others were simply going about their daily business. The size of the fish also surprised me. I had expected to see tiny, 2-3 inch fish such as the ones in the aquariums in pet stores. But no! The fish I saw were several pounds each. There were Yellow Tangs, Brown Chubs, Angel Fish, Trigger Fish, (known by the Hawaiians as the "humuhumunukunukuāpuaʻa") and more. They were all so beautiful that I wanted to get closer. I held my breath and dove deeper. To my amazement, the underwater world I had been watching from above seemed totally changed from my new location. Rather than being an observer on the surface, I was part of this underwater world. The fish swam all around me, seemingly unafraid of this foreign intruder. From my new vantage point, I could see areas that had been hidden before. A striped eel peeked its head out from between some rocks and a sea turtle gracefully sailed by me. I remember thanking God at that moment for allowing me to share in that part of His creation. Later, reflecting on all I had seen and done, I was also thankful that I had taken that first step off the shore, and even more, I was thankful that I dove below the surface.

So often in life we are content with being observers. We feel comfortable in the perceived security of our world and of what is familiar. We fear the unknown and all that comes with it. But, if we never take that step of faith, we will never experience all the blessings that God has waiting for us, and His plan for us will not be lived out. I love the quote that says, “A ship in a harbor is safe, but that’s not what ships are built for” (William Thayer Shedd). God created us to have a relationship with Him and to show His glory. Why then, do we not trust that He will enable us to do all He says? “So don't be afraid: I'm with you… every last one who bears my name, every man, woman, and child whom I created for my glory, yes, personally formed and made each one.” Isaiah 43:6-7

I feel like I have been floating on the surface of what God has waiting for me for far too long. I don’t want to miss what He has planned for me. As I enter this stage of my life, I am no longer content to merely be an observer of the faith. It is my desire to go deeper with Him. I long to be part of what He has planned, not simply to watch it from a “safe” distance or view His plan from the surface. I want to step out in faith and draw closer to Him, knowing that as I do so, He will be with me. “Come close to God, and God will come close to you” (James 4:8). I pray that God grants me the courage to fulfill this longing.

Over the next few months, please join me in this endeavor to draw closer to God. I will be posting entries every week or so as I continue on this journey to“Live by faith and not by sight.” (2 Corinthians 5:7). Together let’s discover what He made us for and step by step, go deeper with Him.

Going deeper,

Beyond Bethlehem

2011-01-05T13:19:00.000-08:00

After the build up to Christmas and the joyous celebrations that came with it, we are now back to our usual routine. The tree is down and the decorations are put away. Visitors and family have gone, leaving a strangely empty feeling in our homes. Often a melancholy fog seems to settle in as we walk through the days following Christmas. It is all too easy to let a shadow cover the joy we felt only days ago as we live in the days “beyond”.

Two thousand years ago, on a night lit brightly by a heavenly star, a young mother gave birth to a Holy Child. In a humble manger in Bethlehem Love entered the world in human form. Angels announced it, shepherds welcomed it and wise men celebrated it. The long anticipated arrival of the Savior, whose birth had been foretold centuries before, had finally come. “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6). But was His arrival the final climax to centuries of anticipation? Was the work completed on that cold winter’s night? Though Jesus’ birth was the culmination of a miraculous and holy pregnancy, God’s plan didn’t end as Mary held Jesus in her arms for the first time. That moment was only the beginning.

As Christians, we celebrate Christmas because it is the beginning of God’s plan of salvation for us. Jesus Christ, God and Man, Father and Son, entered the world to save us from our sins. And in the years that followed His momentous birth, God walked with us and talked with us. He brought Light to a dark world as He taught the Truth of the scriptures. He healed the sick. He comforted the hurting. He fed the hungry and He ministered to the multitudes. He faced every challenge and temptation that we have ever or will ever experience. And through it all, He did not sin. He understands us, not only because He created us, but because He lived as one of us. But why would our Creator do this? Because He loves us. So great is His compassion that Christ lived a life on earth and then willingly went to the cross to die for us. He saved us from eternal separation from God and gave His life so we could be with Him forever. His ultimate sacrifice, 33 years beyond Bethlehem, is a gift of love and of life that should always be celebrated. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

So now, on these days following our celebrations of the birth of Christ let our joy increase! Each day, let us remember that Emmanuel, God with Us, came to earth and began a journey that is still continuing today. Let us celebrate the joy beyond Christmas…beyond Bethlehem. For Bethlehem was just the beginning.

Living for Him,

The Sum of It All

2010-12-27T11:44:00.000-08:00

As I sit here at my desk, trying to put my thoughts into words, I am tempted to become frustrated with myself. So much has happened over this past year that to somehow try to wrap it all up into one simple blog posting would be impossible. My heart is full of joy as I see what the Lord has brought us through these last twelve months, but to capture that emotion in mere text seems beyond my ability.

We have faced many challenges since last December, but God has proved faithful every step of the way. During the times of uncertainty and even fear, God calmed us and showed us His strength. We learned that when we place our trust in Him, He never leaves our side. “Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you” (Psalm 9:10). And by His side, we have witnessed miracles. From the surprising ways God stretched our income right when it was needed the most, to the healing of our daughter through a life-saving operation, God’s compassion and provision has amazed us.

This year, our faith has grown as God has taught us patience. Sometimes His plans may seem unclear or slow to us, but He has shown us that His timing is always perfect. Through waiting upon His timing, we were able to witness God's glory. We learned that quite often it is in the journey that God prepares us for what is to come. And without the winding path He leads us on, the destination would not otherwise be found. “This vision is for a future time. It describes the end, and it will be fulfilled. If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed” (Habakkuk 2:3).

And so, if I were to summarize all we have experienced this past year and put it into one word, I would choose the word “love”. For God has shown us His love through every experience we have had and through every lesson He has taught. On this Thankful Thursday, as the year 2010 rolls to a close, I am praising God for the sum of it all - His everlasting love.

“Give thanks to the LORD, for He is good,

for His steadfast love endures forever.

Give thanks to the God of gods,

for His steadfast love endures forever.

Give thanks to the Lord of lords,

for His steadfast love endures forever;

to Him who alone does great wonders,

for His steadfast love endures forever”
(Psalm 136:1-4).

Living for Him,

Please hop over to Iris' blog, Grace Alone, to link up with this week's Thankful Thursday posts.

I Heard the Bells

2010-12-09T05:58:00.000-08:00

I seem to do a lot of thinking and praying in my car. And on one particular morning last week, my thoughts turned to the confusion that so often surrounds us in this life. I thought of the troubles that face this generation and the emptiness I know so many people feel, especially at this time of year. With memories of recent stressful events still lingering beneath the surface of my own heart, I wondered at the pain in this world. How could there be so much darkness when Jesus is the Light? But, as a cloud threatened to descend upon me, I heard a familiar song come on the radio. I paused at the profound impact of its message. Through the words Henry Wadsworth Longfellow penned in 1867, my thoughts were clearly echoed -

“I heard the bells on Christmas day

Their old familiar carols play

And mild and sweet their songs repeat

Of peace on earth good will to men

And in despair I bowed my head

There is no peace on earth I said

For hate is strong and mocks the song

Of peace on earth good will to men”

Sometimes it does appear that the events in this world mock the message that Christ so clearly brings us. There are tragedies and sorrows that we will never fully comprehend, but our God tells us that we can have peace in Him. “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

The good news is that we are not left without hope. God will guide us as we navigate through the difficult times for He has given us the ability to overcome the troubles of this earth. In 1 John 4:4 we are reminded that “…the One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.” Praise God! At that moment I realized that my eyes and ears needed to be adjusted. Where was my focus? Was I only seeing the stresses and troubles in life rather than counting my blessings? Was I listening to the enemy’s lies rather than the song that God is singing every day? As the music on the radio continued, I smiled and my thoughts turned to praise.

“Then rang the bells more loud and deep

God is not dead, nor doth He sleep

The wrong shall fail, the right prevail

With peace on earth, good will to men”

God's song rings louder than the noise of this world. He is here, all around us...we just need to turn our ears to Him and listen. I am listening, God. My heart is open to You. I hear you…and the bells are ringing.

Praising Him this Christmas,

P.S. If you have a moment, please check out the "Advent of Christmas" tab at the top of my blog. Blessings to you!

ABC's of Thanks

2010-11-24T14:10:00.000-08:00

At this time of year as Thanksgiving draws near, I couldn't resist posting on the many blessings in my life for which I am thankful! So today, I'm linking up with Rachel at Finding Joy to share my ABC's of Thanks! I'm also linking up with Laurie at Women Taking a Stand on this Thankful Thursday!

A - Awesomeness of God. Every day He continues to amaze me!
B - Beauty in each day - the sunrise as I drive to work, the sun's rays peeking out from behind the clouds, the frost covering the hills by our home.
C - Cole & Chelsea, my grown children - my heart is full of love and respect for them.
D - Dining together as a family, on Thanksgiving or anytime
E - Electricity - for light, warmth, entertainment.
F - Family and friends - I am so thankful for all whom God has brought into my life. I pray blessings on each and everyone of you!
G - God is good -- all the time!
H - Home - A place of safety, laughter and love.
I - Infinite love from an infinite God.
J - Joy - In any circumstance, throughout all seasons, my joy is in the Lord!
K - Kylah - one of our family's greatest blessings!
L - Life! Each day is a blessing from above. I pray that my life, lived for Him, brings Him honor and joy.
M - Marriage - my husband is a gift from the Lord and I thank God everyday for the blessing of Roy in my life.
N - New neighborhood - God has brought us to a quiet and comfortable place with life and beauty all around us.
O - Outstanding doctors. Through the hands of a skilled surgeon, and the wonders of modern medicine, our daughter's heart now beats as it should.
P - Praise music to listen to on the way to and from work - KLUV & KNDL.
Q - Quiet times with the Lord each morning
R - Roy! He gets two letters on my list. God knew right from the start that he would be the perfect match for me. I am so grateful for his love.
S - Salvation. Above all else, I am humbly grateful for Christ's sacrifice for me on the cross.
T - Thanksgiving Day - to share the bounty of God's blessings with my family!
U - United States - we are blessed to live in a country with the freedom to worship as we please.
V - Vacation! (Need I say more?)
W - Washing machines - for clothes and for dishes. These wonderful devices make chores so much simpler!
X - Χριστός - the Greek word which means "Christ".
Y - Yo Gabba Gabba! Those who know, are smiling now!
Z - Zephyr Point - One of the most beautiful places I know. We are looking forward to spending several days there together with our family.

Thank you Lord, for the many blessings in my life! Each year you have continued to provide above and beyond all of my needs! I am continually amazed at the depth of your love. Amen.

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Living for Him,

Throughout The Battle

2010-11-20T19:07:00.000-08:00

Do you ever feel that you’ve come to the end of your rope? Have you felt that life has become so overwhelming that if just one more difficult or challenging thing happens you will lose the battle and the army of giants in your life will overtake you? Sometimes life feels that way. It comes at you like a battering ram until you are bruised and aching, feeling that you can’t take anymore. But in times like those, when we feel defeated, we need to remember that though life can be hard, our Savior is there for us throughout the battle.

Recently, a series of events have occurred in my life that have left me so emotionally exhausted that I haven’t been able to function as I should. My smile has been forced, my laugh strained and my positive attitude has been injured. Pressure has enveloped me like an evil vice grip and stress has taken its toll. How long, I have wondered, until I would feel relief? As I have opened my eyes each day, I have cried out to God and I know He hears me. “You are my Helper and my Savior. O my God, do not delay” (Psalm 40:17b).

God always proves faithful in all He does and I trust Him completely. The difficulty, I have found, lies in remembering that His timing is perfect. Even in my struggles, He is working with a purpose. In my weakness, I have felt that I couldn’t handle any more. With my strength drained and energy gone, fear crept its way into my tired soul and I struggled to stand in the battle. But, as I confessed my fears to Him, I remembered that the battle is the Lord’s! He will hold me up and fight for me. I need not be afraid! “…This is what the Lord says: ‘Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army, for the battle is not yours, but God’s’” (2 Chronicles 20:15).

My Lord is here with me…and He is here with you, too. We can stand firm in the knowledge that throughout all of life’s trials, God is fighting for us. He is greater than any of our giants. Though we are weak, He will hold us up and deliver us. “‘You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the LORD will give you, Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the LORD will be with you’” (2 Chronicles 20:17).

So, as we go out and face another day full of challenges, struggles…and giants, we can have courage. The Lord will be with us and the battle is His.

In His grip,

Laced with Grace

2010-10-29T01:00:00.000-07:00

"In our culture today, we are constantly inundated with beauty tips. Through many forms of media we are promised that anti-wrinkle creams, the latest fashions or even cosmetic augmentation will somehow improve our lives and fill the emptiness we feel inside. But, from God's perspective, our physical qualities are of least importance..."

Please join me over at Laced with Grace to continue reading this devotional as well as others written by Christian women who seek to bless you with the messages that God has impressed upon their hearts.

Living for Him,

Trust and Obey

2010-10-24T19:11:00.000-07:00

If you're like I am, you may have several different Bibles in your home. The other day, I opened up one that was my favorite back in 2004. While flipping through its pages, a piece of paper fell out upon which I had written a prayer and my thoughts on trust in God and His promises. When I read what I had written years ago, my heart was stirred because even (and especially) in the changing seasons in my life right now, I was reminded that no matter what age we are or what stage of life we are living, God's truths never change. He is forever steadfast in His faithfulness to us. I pray that you are blessed with an encouraged heart as you read what was saved within the pages of my well-loved Bible:

I trust you, Father. You know what is best for me. I accept your love and your promises. Strengthen me to continue to follow your will. I don't need to understand your plan for me. I simply need to trust and obey.

I trust that your way, not mine, is best. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
I trust that you love me. (John 3:16)
I trust that you are faithful. (Lamentations 3:23)
I trust that love covers a multitude of sins. (1 Peter 4:8)
I trust that I am forgiven. (Lamentations 22)
I trust that you will place me on a firm foundation. (1 Peter 5:10)
I trust that you care about me. (1 Peter 5:7)
I trust that as I draw near to you, you will draw near to me. (James 4:8)
I trust that as I grow to know you more, you will give me everything I need to live a godly life. (2 Peter 1:3)
I trust that because I love you, even though I may stumble, I will not fall. (Psalm 37:24)
I trust that you hear my prayers. (Psalm 5:3)
I trust that you sent your Son to suffer and die for me. (1 Peter 1:20)
I trust that you have set me free. (John 8:36)
I trust that you will give me wisdom. (James 3:13)
I trust that there is wonderful joy ahead. (1 Peter 1:6)
I trust that you will bless me when I patiently endure testing. (James 1:12)
I trust that you will give me more and more strength to stand up against evil. (James 4:6)
I trust that you are greater than my heart. (1 John 3:20)
I trust that you call me your child because you love me. (I John 3:10)
I trust that you are working in me, giving me the desire to obey you and the power to do what pleases you. (Philippians 2:13)
I trust that Christ is becoming more and more at home in my heart. (Ephesians 3:17)
I trust that you will fill me with the fullness of life. (Ephesians 3:19)
I trust that you comfort me so I can comfort others. (2 Corinthians 1:4)
I trust that you cause everything to work together for good. (Romans 8:28)
I trust that your word holds true. (Psalm 34:4)
I trust that I am freely pardoned by you. (Psalm 34:22)
I trust that your love is unfailing. (Lamentations 3:22)
I trust that you will light my path. (Psalm 119:105)
I trust that you will not leave me. (Jeremiah 17:16)
I trust that you will rescue and protect me. (Psalm 91:3)
I trust that nothing...no nothing, can separate me from your love. (Romans 8:38)

Thank you, Father, for your word to me. I pray that each day I remember your faithfulness and your love. I trust you, Lord. I will trust and obey.

In Jesus' precious name, amen.

Living for Him,

Stretching Exercises

2010-10-14T01:00:00.000-07:00

On this Thankful Thursday, I'm grateful for stretching exercises! No, I haven't started a new exercise routine, but still, I am becoming more limber. God has taken me out of my comfort zone, and I know He is using this time in my life to stretch and grow me. In order to be closer to my parents who have just moved into an independent senior apartment complex, we have also moved into a new home in a new town. With this move have come many hurdles, but I am learning that with each new challenge there is a positive side and lesson to learn.

Last week stress had taken its toll on me and my frustration level was at a new all-time high. Because of the many changes that came so quickly for our family, the stability in my life had become way out of balance. In addition to learning to become comfortable in a new neighborhood, ensure that my parents were settling into their new home as they faced the unique adjustments concerning their own move, my manageable 30 minute commute to work has grown to an hour or more each way. And last week, as I tried to adapt to these changes, I succumbed to the stress. I discovered that there didn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to go to work, come home and unpack, be a wife, a supportive daughter to my parents, be a mother or a friend…or even have time alone with God. I also found it interesting that during this difficult time at home, it was also the busiest time in my office. I was tired and with my energy level spent, I had an emotional meltdown. I sat in my car during my lunch break at work and burst into tears. The ground beneath my feet seemed to crumble into a pile of sand as I felt myself sinking under the weight of a heavy load. I have to admit that I was so distraught that I couldn’t go to work the next day. My supervisor understood, but still, I felt that I was a failure at handling the changes in my life.

As I rested the next day, I remembered the message that God brought through His servant James: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4). It became obvious that I needed to reevaluate my circumstances. But how could I consider my current trials “joy”? As I pondered that question, I realized that God was at work in my situation. He was making changes in me. God is always at work stretching, growing, maturing and refining us. And just like with stretching exercises, the resulting growth can be painful. Though many things were happening in my life to upset my emotional status quo, I needed to remember what my first priority should be. I needed to keep God at the center of my life every day, especially when life turned upside down. I needed to always put God first, rather than only "try" to save room for Him.

So, with the gentle (or not so gentle) nudging of the Holy Spirit, I changed my point of view. Rather than dwelling in the place where my stress overcame me, I looked at the changes in my life with new eyes, remembering that when I put God first, everything else would fall into place.

When I got up the next morning, I left the house earlier than usual. During my drive to work, I actually turned off the radio and found myself talking and praying to God. My long drive to work became a peaceful journey with God by my side. I used that time to reconnect with the Lord rather than become frustrated with time lost. Then, when I arrived at work, I spent the next 30 minutes continuing my time with the Lord by reading the Bible in my car. The shift in my priorities made a huge difference in how I handled my day. Though the workload was still high, I felt mentally prepared. And then, when I returned home in the evening, though I was tired from a long day, my attitude was better.

In our lives we all face seasons of change. Sometimes that change is difficult and often painful. But through it all, God is faithful. He is busy refining us and purifying us as we mature. Each challenge that we face is truly an opportunity to learn and grow. For me in this season, God’s message has been to remember my priorities…to keep Him first. Then, even when the world is swirling all around me, my feet will be on solid ground.

“So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while. These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world” (1 Peter 1:6-7).

Living for Him,

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Breathe

2010-09-28T01:00:00.000-07:00

There is a mass of confusion at my house right now. I have boxes piled high, cupboards emptied and decorations wrapped up like presents. It is a challenge to find anything that I’m looking for as I make my way through the maze of chaos which currently represents my home. I have packed up to move several times in my life, but on this occasion I’m noticing that stress and worry is playing havoc with me. I work full time and because of that, I keep wondering how everything will ever get done! My mind races from one thing to another as I go through my mental list of to-do’s and chores until I’m running on massive “overload”! But, I need to remember to take time to breathe...and let God be God.

In Paul’s grateful letter to the Philippians, he tells us to rely on Christ for our strength, for through Him, we can accomplish all that God wills. “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13). Upon reflecting on that verse, I feel peace returning. I know that God is aware of what I need to get done, not simply what I want to get done. He knows my time parameters, but more than that, He already has a plan and knows how and when everything will and should work out. I know that He will strengthen me and allow me to complete what He wants me to complete. And so, I pause and take time to breathe…and let God be God.

In the Gospel of Mark there is a time recorded when Christ’s disciples were exhausted from ministering to the people. They were so busy that they hadn’t even had time to feed themselves. But, Jesus reminded them that they all needed to take time to get away and rest. “Then Jesus said, ‘Let’s go off by ourselves to a quiet place and rest awhile.’ He said this because there were so many people coming and going that Jesus and His apostles didn’t even have time to eat” (Mark 6:31). When life is coming at you full force, the temptation is to not stop. I see the tendency in me to keep running and working until the job is done. But, as a result the work suffers, as does my emotional and physical self. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28). It is important to come before the Lord with our burdens for He will refresh and strengthen us. And so, I come before Him and take time to breathe…and let God be God.

And in those quiet moments of refreshment, when I am still and calm, the Lord will comfort and strengthen me enabling me to complete what He needs me to complete. He is big enough for all my burdens. He is always working. He is always sovereign. He is always God. “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10). So, I take time to breathe...and let God be God.

Living for Him,

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Seasons of Change

2010-09-14T14:49:00.000-07:00

I've heard it said that the only constant thing in life is change. At this time of year, as the summer days are reaching their end, the morning air is just beginning to turn crisp and sweaters are becoming necessary in the late afternoon. Soon, as autumn continues to blow its way further into the North Bay, the days will shorten and the leaves on the trees will change from green to gold. Pumpkin patches will emerge amid the drying cornstalks on the outskirts of town, ready and waiting for children to excitedly hunt for the perfect pumpkin to carve. Thanksgiving will arrive with scents of cinnamon and freshly baked apple pies. Then, fall will give way to winter and the earth will rest as it prepares for the coming of spring. I love the earth’s shifting seasons, but for many of us, change is an uncomfortable feeling.

Our world is continually changing. Political leaders come and go, new governments emerge and some fade. Society changes the way it thinks, sometimes for the better, and sometimes not. The fashions of today will be outdated tomorrow. Our children grow up, relationships change and people move on. And, as the days turn into years, our bodies continually transform bringing new challenges as we age. But in the midst of our ever-changing world we can breathe a sigh of relief, for our God is a never-changing God. We can count on Him to be ever faithful, ever strong, “For I am the Lord, I do not change” (Malachi 3:6).

My family is entering into a new season of change. After several joyful months with our son home following his tour in Iraq, he is returning to school to continue his education. We are so pleased for him and are celebrating his chosen path, but with his move, my husband and I are once again “empty-nesters”. It is a change we knew was coming, but still, the swiftness with which it arrived was surprising. We are also happily celebrating God’s hand upon our daughter through her recent surgery and recovery. The changes in her life and health have been astounding! We are excited to see what God has done and is continuing to do! And now, we are also looking at a change in homes. We are not going far, only a few minutes away, but with any relocation comes saying good-bye to familiar surroundings and facing the unknown. However, we know that though there may be some uncertain days to come, God will be there.

As humans, we thrive in stable environments. So what do we do when our world is changing all around us? We depend on the One who is always steady. God is the Rock upon which to stand. It is so comforting to remember that no matter what changes there are around us, God is unwavering. We can count on Him. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8). His power, love and mercy never changes and never ends.

Living for Him,

Words Can't Express

2010-09-01T20:37:00.000-07:00

Heavenly Father,

Today I'm offering up a simple prayer of thanks to You. I know that my words can't come close to expressing the depth of gratitude and joy that I feel, but You Lord, can see my heart. So much has happened over the past few weeks that it seems as if the world around me has been nothing but a blur. Hours have melded into days, and the days into weeks, but through it all You have been faithful! Thank You, Father, for saving our daughter. Through the hands of surgeons made skillful by You, her broken heart was mended.

So many emotions have boiled up under the surface since we heard our daughter needed open heart surgery, but with every fear and with every worry, I heard You say, "Trust Me, trust Me." And if, Lord, there was any lesson You were teaching us it was that...to trust You. Thank you for the peace that you granted us. "You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an Everlasting Rock" (Isaiah 26:3-4).

You are our Everlasting Rock, Lord! Thank You that in the midst of the storm You comforted us. When turbulent waters threatened to overtake us, you lavished Your love upon us. I am overwhelmed! Through Your word and the people that You placed in our path, wisdom was gained and faith was deepened. We are so thankful for our brothers and sisters both near and far who prayed for our daughter...for her healing and for her life. And thank You, Father, for answering them is such a wonderful way! Because of your incredible compassion, a young woman now has a beautiful future ahead of her which is full of hope and promise. A child still has a mother, a husband has a wife, and these two parents are lifting up our arms in praise to You...for we have a daughter made strong by You.

In your Son's precious name I pray, Amen

"The more opportunities to trust Him, the more worn the knees of my jeans become." JD

Living for Him,

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Cruise Control

2010-08-25T15:40:00.000-07:00

A few days ago my husband, son and I were traveling several hours by car to visit our daughter. To help ease the burden of one person driving the entire way, we all took turns at the wheel. When my turn came and I headed down the road, my husband suggested that I use the cruise control feature. My initial response was to simply decline and tell him that I felt more comfortable operating the car manually. But my husband, knowing me better than I know myself sometimes, knew that my answer wasn't as simple as it sounded. He told me that during the long stretches of the road it would help to have it turned on for it would keep my pace steady. I wouldn't be struggling as much and would not tire of driving as quickly. He also told me that an added bonus was that it would produce a more efficient use of the fuel. So, reluctantly I asked him for instructions on its operation. However, I was pleased to find that it was freeing to use the cruise control feature. My stress level instantly lowered as we continued down the road.

I have had my driver's license for many years now, but I have to admit that before this time I had never used the cruise control feature on any of our vehicles! Was it because of fear? Or was it something else? As I sat behind the wheel, mulling over that question, I realized that my true reason for hesitation had been because I was reluctant to give over control to something other than myself. That discovery surprised me and I began to think of other areas in my life where I have felt the need to be in total control. In every one of those places I have learned that when allowing the Lord to lead me, things have gone so much smoother. In times when my burdens were so heavy I bent under the load, it was when I submitted to God that the weight was lifted. Even during rushed times when trying to meet a deadline, it was when I relaxed and allowed God to set the pace that I felt my stress release. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30).

How many times in your life have you resisted the Lord’s guidance? For me, it has been way too many, but, I have found that when I remember to be yoked with the Lord and set my life on His cruise control everything falls perfectly into place – for God’s pace is steady and His road is straight.

Living for Him,

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Sowing Seeds

2010-08-06T12:09:00.000-07:00

When I was younger I sometimes suffered from what I described as shyness. Now, looking back, a description of “anxiety” would be more accurate. I feared going into new places or facing new situations. I could stand up before a large group with only slight nervousness, but to walk into an unfamiliar restaurant or a home I had never been to before terrified me. I would be gripped by a sick feeling in my stomach, my head would spin and I could feel adrenalin race through my veins. It was a battle to get past those feelings and so often, I chose the much easier route and simply avoided situations that triggered that fearful response in me. The result was that I was missing out on much of the joy that God had waiting for me. When I shared my problem of anxiousness with my husband, he told me that whenever I felt that way, to reach out and hold his hand. He would know that was a request to him for prayer. Then, we would silently ask God for courage and walk into the new situation together. With God’s help and the support of my husband, I have been able to move beyond those momentary feelings of panic that sometimes afflicted me.

Though those feelings of fear were real, the basis of them was unfounded. My anxiousness was not based on fact. However, what happens when something occurs in our life when our fears are more understandable? Do we run from them in panic and miss what God may be trying to show us? Or do we look to God for support? “But the LORD is my fortress; my God is the mighty rock where I hide” (Psalm 94:22).

We need to remember that the Lord will protect us in all our fears. He will shelter us and keep us from harm. It is true that our bodies may fail, but God holds our souls. With that knowledge, there is no need to fear. Instead, during trials and when we face uncertainties in life, it is the time to remain strong in our faith. Rather than sitting back and cowering against the pain or sorrows that threaten to defeat us, it is the time to sow seeds of faith. When we demonstrate our trust in the Lord, remembering that He works all things together for the good, we are actively being a witness for Christ. As we look to God, rather than dwelling on our anxiety, we are free to plant seeds of His love in those around us. In turn, our joy in the Lord will overshadow even the deepest fears we may have. And, when we place our trust in Him, we will live in freedom from fear and enjoy a great harvest in life.

“Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, but they sing as they return with the harvest” (Psalm 126:5-6).

Living for Him,

Stepping Stones

2010-07-28T19:27:00.000-07:00

In life there are stepping stones much like those meticulously placed in ponds and streams by landscape architects and gardeners. They bridge the gap between one piece of solid ground and another. Recently, I have found myself standing on shaky ground. A loved one is going through a serious health concern and because of that I have come face to face with the fragility of life. It is in times like these that my stones of faith have been laid. Each stone represents an experience in life, a lesson learned, and a step of faith. And each stone has carried me to a place of deeper fellowship with the Lord.

We shouldn’t be surprised when difficulties come our way, but instead, consider them times to better learn to fully depend on Him. When we realize that each of our trials is an opportunity to see God at work and to be a witness of His greatness for others, our faith is grown and His glory shared. “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith - of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire - may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed”(I Peter 1:6-7).

Our response in times of trouble is crucial. It is not the time to waiver in our faith, but instead, to turn to Him for support and direction. It is easy to try to depend on our own strength, but we will find that by doing so our efforts are fruitless. We will sink in the stressful moments that are sure to come our way. But, God offers calm in the midst of the storm and stepping stones in the middle of deep waters. “Jesus stood up and commanded the wind and said to the waves, ‘Quiet! Be still!’ Then the wind stopped, and it became completely calm”(Mark 4:39). And in those calm moments His loving strength is revealed. When we focus on Christ, He will show us the higher ground which leads us over the water.

Are you going through a situation in your life that you can’t handle on your own? Then look to the Lord. He longs to comfort you and bring peace into your life. He is strong enough for all your burdens! With each trial you give to Him, He will lay another stepping stone before you upon which to firmly place your feet while you travel through deep water. I am praising God for the stepping stones of my faith, each lovingly and beautifully placed by the faithful hands of Christ.

Living for Him,

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It's a Destination

2010-07-20T16:21:00.000-07:00

I live in a town that I affectionately call a "destination". My family smiles at me with patient amusement whenever I refer to it that way, but to me, it is a perfect description. The weather is mild and lovely, the scenery is beautiful and the mood of the town festive and unique. It is close enough to the Pacific that each night the evening breezes cool the hot summer air and refresh our spirits. Each weekend travelers make their way here to enjoy the sites, eat in the restaurants and cruise on the river that runs through the center of our little town. But as special as I feel this “destination” is, it is the path which brought us here that made arriving even sweeter.

The days and weeks prior to moving to a new town came with times of uncertainty, questions, and challenges – Were we making the right choice? Was this the plan God had for us? Will there be a job there for me? A home? Friends? But with each challenge placed before us we looked to God for the answers. Our prayer was for God to show us the way and lead us. We desired His will, not our own. Then, when an obstacle was placed in one direction, a door opened in another until the path and destination was made clear and we were filled with a sense of peace.

We have learned that nothing happens without a reason. The lessons learned and the patience gained while we waiting for God's answers grew our faith and prepared us for where we are today, both in location and in our hearts. We have been given a greater sense of appreciation for all the blessings in our life and the journey we are on. By keeping our eyes on Jesus, our path was clear because He was our goal.

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Hebrews 12:1-2)

I trust my Lord completely. And as comfortable as I am in my current “destination”, I will follow Him to wherever He chooses to take me in the future – in life, in location, in service. Along the way, each time I am removed from my comfort zone, I know He is stretching and growing me for His glory. I am not perfect, far from it! But I love a perfect God. I know that He loves me just as I am but He also loves me far too much to allow me stay the same. I am clay being molded and shaped by the Potter and I welcome His skillful hands. “And yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter. We all are formed by your hand.” (Isaiah 64:8)

Until I reach my final destination, I pray that my life lived for Him will show His glory. With each step forward and each stumble back along the way, I will continue to keep my eyes on where I am going – to Him, my ultimate destination.

Living for Him,

Taking Bloggers’ Advice…and My Own

2010-07-09T16:18:00.000-07:00

For the past few days I’ve felt a bit off. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but it is like a cloud seems to be hanging over me. Nothing has happened – there have been no tragedies and there has been nothing to blame my grey mood on. I’m just feeling out of sorts. Each day begins as the one before. I wake up, go downstairs and make coffee. Then, I sit in my favorite chair and open up God’s Word, drinking in its richness. But then, as I go about my day, old memories and worries seem to push away the encouragement in the truths that I have just read. The temptation is to focus on things long since resolved and dwell on things that might have been. I know the folly in my recent thought process and each day I agree more and more with the saying, “Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles; it empties today of its strength.” That pretty much says it - I have been feeling sapped of emotional strength.

Then, while reading a blogging friend’s post “Opportunities to Trust”, three of her words struck a deep chord within me. My friend, Debbie, said to “make the choice” how to respond to circumstances around us. She was writing about making the choice to trust God in all things, but her words reminded me that our joy is also a choice. I realized that even though I was feeling melancholy, I still knew the Lord was my joy. The problem was, however, that I was not choosing to embrace that joy. The result of that left me feeling tired and drained.

Several months ago, I wrote a post about no one being able to steal my joy, but obviously, I needed a refresher course! God’s Word promises to revive tired and troubled souls, but we have to not only read those words, we need to choose to accept them. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Mathew 11:28-29).

So today, I am changing my attitude and am deciding to look at the blessings in my life! I am consciously going to take the focus off of myself and place it where it should be…on God. I am choosing the Lord…I am choosing joy! Thank you, Debbie, for your wonderful reminder that it is a choice! I am already feeling stronger! "The joy of the Lord is your strength" (Nehemiah 8:10).

Sometimes We Get Pumpkin Bread

2010-06-29T12:37:00.000-07:00

When I woke up this morning I was looking forward to treating myself to my weekly Starbucks coffee and breakfast snack. (Ok, I admit it; sometimes it is more than a weekly treat!) I rushed through getting ready for work, knowing that I would need to cut a few minutes in order to have enough time to get into the store, place my order, and then continue on my way. The anticipation of enjoying my foam-topped latte along with some smooth Greek Yogurt was building in my mind as I got into my car and headed down the road. My stomach was growling and I realized that this morning, I was actually looking forward to the yogurt more than the coffee! Minutes later I walked into the store and cheerfully placed my order only to find that they were out of my favorite treat! Yes, they still had coffee, but I have to admit that I was fairly disappointed when I had to "settle" for pumpkin bread to go along with it. Though later, when I took my first bite of the bread and tasted the first sip of the coffee, I was strangely satisfied. In fact, the pumpkin bread was the perfect sweet complement to the bold Sumatran coffee!

As I pondered the change in my opinion about my breakfast, my thoughts turned to how God answers prayer. What happens when God answers prayers differently than we would like or expect? There have been many times in my life when I have excitedly looked forward to something only to have my hopes dashed when things didn’t turn out the way I had hoped. But does that mean God didn’t answer my prayers? No. On every one of those occasions I’ve discovered that God had other plans for me, and those other plans were always better than what I had designed for myself. I can say without a doubt that God always answers prayer. What I have learned, though, is that God doesn’t always answer it in the ways we expect. Sometimes I don’t even like His answer…at first. But that is where trust comes in. I know that God’s plan for me is far better than anything I could plan for myself, for He sees the entire picture. I only see a small snapshot of life.

“My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:8-9).

Sometimes God says, "No", because He knows what is best for us. Just like the loving parent, who denies their child the extra piece of candy is protecting them from a sore stomach; God is protecting us from things not yet seen. And often it is because He has something even better planned for us. I love the quote from Reverend Billy Graham’s late wife, Ruth, “If God had answered my prayers the way I had hoped, I would have married the wrong man several times!” God knew even before Ruth what was best for her. He was preparing the perfect match and partner in ministry for her. If Ruth had married her other suitors, the Graham’s life and legacy, would have been entirely different.

Sometimes God says, “Not that way”, because He’s taking us in a different, better direction. He knows the best path for our lives. Sometimes God says, “Not yet”, because His timing is perfect and he may want to develop patience in us. “But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31). And Sometimes, God says, “Yes!” because our prayers are in line with His will for us. So, when praying, we need to ask ourselves - Are our motives wrong? Are we praying for God’s will or for our own? By letting God know our desires, but then trusting Him for His answers, and remembering that He has a reason for everything, we are demonstrating our faith in Him.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Yes, God always answers prayer, but thankfully, sometimes we get pumpkin bread.

Living for Him,